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    I wouldn't like it too much if I were you. Did her ex ever want to try to get her back when you two were together? Because with my boyfriend, his ex tried to get back with him when him and me were dating, and that made me madder than hell and it really agitates me that he chats with her online sometimes because of that reason. I wouldn't put up with it if I were in your shoes.

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    What was the original fight about anyway? Was it really that serious that she needed to vent to an outsider as inappropriate as an ex? Is she a very thin skinned as a person?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    What was the original fight about anyway? Was it really that serious that she needed to vent to an outsider as inappropriate as an ex? Is she a very thin skinned as a person?
    It was about my jealousy issues.

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    I think you have every right to be pissed off about her hanging out with her ex. Especially after you've had a fight. She would have to be OBLIVIOUS to not know this would bother you.

    Seems rather incediary or at the very least insensitive. Are you sure she wasn't doing this to deliberately make you jealous?
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    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck View Post
    I think you have every right to be pissed off about her hanging out with her ex. Especially after you've had a fight. She would have to be OBLIVIOUS to not know this would bother you.

    Seems rather incediary or at the very least insensitive. Are you sure she wasn't doing this to deliberately make you jealous?
    people have been saying that it could be a possibility but she says there was no one else to hang out with and she needed company.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoversOutreach View Post
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    Rebecca forgot to mention that their tips and expert advice will also increase the size of your penis
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    Rebecca forgot to mention that their tips and expert advice will also increase the size of your penis
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    Quote Originally Posted by zombie_loo89 View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post

    Mind you, I've heard lesbian relationships are more likely to be emotionally abusive than others.

    Would it surprise you considering you're dealing with two women?
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    Zombie,

    Its good to have friends to confide in. But an ex in this role is bad news. Especially b/c you are so young. Its unlikely they have the maturity to pull it off.

    You already know this or you wouldn't be posting here.

    Tell her it makes you uncomfortable and why. If you don't get a reasonable response, you may need to consider a break.
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