Avoiding the friend zone, but still not getting in there... what do I do?

[Gigabitch]

Girls like me want to bitchslap girls like her.

[pisces7378]

Somewhere along the line I decided to listen to one of my stupid guy friends and just behave genuinely with guys. No bs, you know. I'm beginning to see that was a huge mistake. Most guys are like you. They enjoy the game.

Thanks for the reminder. I will be returning to my bitchy game playing ways.

~L

I'd love to say that you are wrong, and that you should always be a straight shooter. But unfortunately, I think that you are right. If you come straight at a guy, no BS, then he thinks that you are either: gay, too intense, damaged, or something like that.

Keep up a little game, but do understand that if you take it too far, you are just being a turd.

[VincenzoG91]

Pisces, if you haven't done so yet, just consider her a friendly acquaintance and move on. The only thing stopping you from dating other women is yourself. It's possible that this woman might get serious about you if she saw you with other women, but don't do things just to get her attention. Just move on. If she comes around, okay, if not, you've got to live life for yourself.

[pisces7378]

Pisces, if you haven't done so yet, just consider her a friendly acquaintance and move on. The only thing stopping you from dating other women is yourself. It's possible that this woman might get serious about you if she saw you with other women, but don't do things just to get her attention. Just move on. If she comes around, okay, if not, you've got to live life for yourself.

That's pretty much what I've done.

Haven't contacted her nor been contacted by her in weeks. Ain't no thang!

Thanks for the support though.