Girlfriend broke up with me really unexpectedly! Really confused.

[omgamandaa]

This girl doesn't sound like she is right for you, but if you really are interested in getting her back, give her a little space and then go get her tiger.

[Paul19]

I think her situation has made her grumpy and snappy, it was the reason she said that she left me, it was starting to piss me off, and she started to notice, once she has shi!t sorted i think she'll be happier

[Bear Bear]

I am going through something similar except with my boyfriend. I have done everything for him and taken alot of abuse and tried to forgive him. WE ARE ENGAGEDbut I CAN' LET GO

Hey Everyone

We were together on the weekend then on tuesday my girlfriend broke up with me, she said that she needs some space to sort some things in her life out, we didnt have a big fight, i just said thats ok, i tried to be mature about it, she wanted to call it a break, She also said that after she gets it sorted we can start over.

The reason I'm confused is because 10 days before she broke up with me she went to a party got drunk and slept with another dude, straight after it happen she told me about it, when she did tell me we were with her family at her sisters house for lunch, in that situation i couldnt really get angry, i also didnt have my car so was pretty well stuck there until we left. When this happened we had only been together for 8 weeks, cheating is still cheating, but i gave her a second chance. she did tell me it was a mistake and she regrets it, i know its wrong to assume but im pretty sure that has nothing to do with her leaving me.

Another reason im confused is that after all that i did nothing bad to her (i was by no means the perfect boyfriend but i did try my hardest) i was good, buy things for her (within reason), take her places take her shopping, she lives 2 hours away from me, in the past before she met me, she would of normally just caught the train, but i would drive her home or pick her up, she also has a 3 year old son (not mine) who i think is great.

She is also treating me like a stranger, i tried to talk to her on facebook and she seemed pretty distant, and talked to me like we hadnt been together. I'm not ringing her like a stalker every 10 mins im giving her space, but the times when i have tried to ring she ignores them. I dont think she wanted to leave me, i think she needs to do what best for her and her son. i think its unfair that she is ignoring me, even if i give her space i still want to be in her life, shes important to me.

Its hard to deal with this, Do you think i should just move on? or fight and try and get her back? Or could that be selfish of me? or maybe just give her the space and maybe call in 2 weeks! Could the reason be that she isnt answering my calls because she misses me?

Any advice or opinions on this will be appreciated.

Thanks