B) I can relate to you very much. I'm going through the same problem right now.
I still didn't get a reason why she suddenly decided to break up with me, but I have a huge list of possibilities.
In my case a week after the breakup, I got drunk at a party and later talked with someone who knows her too well, she got pissed off with me for that.
And after exchanging arguing messages she agreed to hear what I have to say even though she had nothing to say. Lucky for me I was hungover with a bad headache and my sister had advised me not to piss her off any further unless I want to make things worse, before I replied to her agreement.
So I said I was sick and would talk to her when I'm better and having a clear head.
I never called to talk to her about how I felt or anything. It's nice to have a sister to advise me.
Even for this wedding I went to, my sister reminded me. Although just showing up seems to have annoyed her, when it seems everyone expected I would not show up.
Thing is, if what everyone says is right, she won't think of me even 1% if I make any contact with her. It's true that I want her back, but I'm struggling to face a fact that I'm highly probably not going to get a chance with her ever again.
She said I was going to get hurt on the very night things went down hill. She asked me if I was serious about considering marrying her later that night. She said not to wait for her on the day we broke up.
And she knows I'll would wait for her and give her all the time she needed.
What I'm doing is, moving on with or without her. I'll leave my doors open to her should she change her mind. But only until a relationship with someone else starts.
If I'm giving advise, it's to think about it carefully. You don't want to make her angry at you for contacting her, that makes it harder to do anything.
But it's possible, neither one of us will ever get an answer from them.
I'll pray for you, that things will work out for the both of you.
-Any replies by me are purely my opinion and based on my experiences and inexperienced actions meaning some things I say are right and some are wrong. If it sounds like it, I am not giving a solution or answer to the problem. This is why I am not supposed to post on forums I read only from.
M.E.
Kashan
Rider Viper
My Sister Says: "You're moving on pretty fast."
I say: "Would you prefer if I sit in a corner all day?"