How should I plan on telling his girlfriend that we are having an affair with her bf?

[yoyobabe01]

This is the reason why I don't have very many female friends...you are all a bunch of f ucked up vindictive bitches that can't mind their own business...a bunch of stupid _unts. Stuff like this is just stupid. Again it's not the posters business to tell the GF anything...should have not spread her skanky ass legs in the first place ..whore.

thanks for calling me a whore but I at least screw better than she does which is why he cheated on her. I did not put my time and devotion into him.

[yoyobabe01]

and i did send her screen shots of the texts between he and i so it is solid proof

[vashti]

thanks for calling me a whore but I at least screw better than she does which is why he cheated on her. I did not put my time and devotion into him.

But he loves HER more, which is why he isn't with you.

You lose.

[searock]

and i did send her screen shots of the texts between he and i so it is solid proof

Ok then, it's settled. You did what you had to do to warn her about what type of "man" her boyfriend is.

Now stop even thinking about this situation and never contact them again.

What she decides to do is none of your business. Move on with your life.

[foxy894]

I hope you realize of what have you been doing with your EX without knowing his GF. That's really hurts much to the GIRLFRIEND'S part. You are both playing safe! You are also a girl and you know how the feelings if you're boyfriend have still an affair with his EX.

[Wakeup]

thanks for calling me a whore but I at least screw better than she does which is why he cheated on her. I did not put my time and devotion into him.

If thinking you "screw better" than someone is your way of getting your ego stroking, so be it.. anyone who is reading your diatribe knows that he ****ed you simply because he could.

Learn to respect yourself more and you'd not have let him near you knowing he had a gf. It's not like he lied to you or was disengenuous and duped you into this mess you call your life.

[smackie9]

If a stranger was hitting his old lady in a back alley would you mind your own business?

Again apples to oranges.....having an affair is not a criminal act, but physical assult is....

[bcgirl]

thanks for calling me a whore but I at least screw better than she does which is why he cheated on her. I did not put my time and devotion into him.

Have some self respect for yourself. There are billions of guys in this world. If u wanted to fu(k with no strings attached then u can find many and don't have to ooze desperation and resort to fu(k your ex on his gf's bed. Good for him, he uses you as a throw a way sex toy whenever he wants. He doesn't give a sh!t what your feelings are or what you have to say. Shut up and fu(k is what you are good for. Then he tells u things like you are great in bed, you eat it up and fall for his smooth player ways. He goes back to his gf's bed and makes love with her lasting an hour cuz he just fu(led you the same day and could care less he was a minute man with you..it beats jackin off.

[bcgirl]

Again apples to oranges.....having an affair is not a criminal act, but physical assult is....

Some countries adultery can put you to jail or give u a death sentence

[Wakeup]

... O.o ...

[smackie9]

Some countries adultery can put you to jail or give u a death sentence

And girls in those countries get circumcized so they never feel sexual pleasure to ensure they never cheat..does that make it right?

[bcgirl]

^ no of course it's wrong. If I lived in those countries I would have been dead a long time ago.
Although we can all just turn a blind eye and not want to interfere with other ppl's drama... How would you feel if your loved one was cheating on you? Someone you trusted and thought you'd be living happily ever after was betraying you this whole time? Wouldn't you want someone who knew to tell you? There are lots of cases where ppl forgive the cheater, but for many; cheating would be a deal breaker. I know that they say what you don't know can't hurt you. But it's also wrong to live a lie and being manipulated, betrayed and deceived everyday.
We all as consumers are being deceived everyday from our governments and large mega-corporations. They steal from us, feed us carcinogenic foods that cause us death by cancer and a list of other diseases. Yet they arent breaking any laws. Cigarette companies has lied to us for years causing millions to die. If it weren't for those few ppl that did take a stand, to report and educate the world about what's going on, the evil keep getting away with stuff.
Do the right thing and be a good citizen. Just because other ppl are strangers and aren't family, doesn't mean they don't deserve a life how you'd want it to be

[searock]

How would you feel if your loved one was cheating on you? Someone you trusted and thought you'd be living happily ever after was betraying you this whole time? Wouldn't you want someone who knew to tell you?

Yep, I agree with this. She did the right thing.

[bcgirl]

And for those ppl that say that they'd rather not know a loved one was cheating in a monogamous relationship are stupid. It's like those ppl feeding themselves McDonald's everyday and saying "ooh don't tell me where my food comes from, I don't wanna know" while they eat their greasy garbage that causes obesity, diseases, animal cruelty etc. etc.

[smackie9]

Yep, I agree with this. She did the right thing.

No I disagree. I could see if she had an std or pregnant, that would make it necessary, but since she full well knew what she was doing...she really had no right IMO. It was vindictive and she took pleasure in doing it...that says a lot for her character. She should have kept her legs closed and given him a lecture on how much of a bad idea it was and shut him down.

I have been witness to infidelity (close friends, co-workers and family) I still believe in keeping my mouth shut and minding my own business. It's up to them to work it out.