This girl I work with...

[chailli]

All right, so I've been working together with this girl for a number of months now. We haven't seen each other outside of work or anything like that. But, at work she seems pretty interested now more than when we first started working together. She strikes up a conversation, we crack harmless jokes at one another. She wants me to drive her home next week after work. Since I have added her on Facebook she told me to talk to her on there.. All that fun stuff, you know.

Problem is she just began a relationship with someone else, total dummy though. Funny think is the talk around work is that we're "going out."

What do you think? Should I do anything?

Thank!

[pcmaster]

Just follow your heart.

[chailli]

That's what I did with my ex girlfriend and let me tell you that did not end up to well haha

[rob1984]

Keep trying then. However if she has a bf now, show him some respect. And let her make a choice without u making a move on her.

[chailli]

Well I'm working with her tonight, so I'll let you know how it goes.

[kskts6115]

I'd have to say dating people at work is a bad idea. Been there done that and it doesn't work out so well in the end. If this is just a job for you and you don't plan on being there long then sure go for it but if you think you will be there a while then it is a bad idea. It's great when you are dating but think in the long run. When you break up you are going to have to see this person often.. And it's awkward. Just letting you know the other side of the story before you jump in and try to get involved. Btw she is involved with someone....doesn't matter if other people think you are going out because ultimately right now she is dating someone else.

[michelle23]

If she has started something with someone else and is giving you the come on too-she is not trustworthy. However, she might just be being friendly. It doesn't sound like she is that into you to be honest. Shes just being nice. So what if you talk and laugh at work.. Most colleagues do that. Its not a good idea to go out with someone you work with because if it doesn't work out, work will be awkward and difficult. Or imagine if she broke your heart and you still had to see her everyday..

[chailli]

She asked me if I had a girlfriend if that means anything..

[bleucandle]

Don't do anything, you don't have enough "chips" in that poker game. There's nothing definitive; okay, okay, okay, she might be flirting with you, but that's not even registering bright enough on the radar yet.

I'm not one to fall into the subtleties of women. I'm more about "Speak and BE heard", I dont play "WHATZ IT" or "GO FISH".
This is what gets men in ASSumptive trouble, don't fall for guessTURES. Good luck

[chailli]

She's probably just being nice, but every time we work together I feel like I just get closer and closer with her.

She's always the first one to say hi when we see each other, and always laughing at my jokes that I don't even find funny. That type of thing you know.

There's just something about her.

[ashley89]

I agree with Katie, even though you may really like this girl and feel you're getting closer, she does have a boyfriend and you have to respect that. if she didn't like the guy or didn't want to be with him, I don't think she would be dating him. she may just like you as a friend and that's why she feels she can get close to you. at this point there isn't much else you can do, it stinks but I think if she wanted to go out with you she wouldn't be with this other guy

[chailli]

I understand what you guys are saying about the boyfriend part, that's why I'm not putting all chips in at once as you can say.

But, when someone else brought up the boyfriend timbit at work around me she seemed a bit hesitate and didnt want to talk to about it, and said a joking remark about me being her boyfriend.

She also remembers things that even I forget, but I guess that's with all girls haha, and when I said I forgot my password she said it was "myname loves hername". I know kiddie things. But it must aleast me she's interested a little bit.

[chailli]

Also she sometimes talk about my interests and ask what I'm have to do for my schooling.

[chailli]

anyone have anything to say?

[michelle23]

If shes with someone else stay away from her. No exceptions. If she likes you-she shouldnt be with him..