Quote Originally Posted by carl1222 View Post
Well, I see I got to you too late to counter everyone who suggests playing games instead of being direct. Some girls respond to that I suppose ... be unavailable to make her miss you. My question is why would you want to be with someone who is not attracted to you for who you really are? I would agree with most of the posts above if you're just trying to get laid, but if you want more then why be with someone who gets closer when you pull back, or pulls back when you get closer?

Pretending indifference when you really aren't is not manly, and it's not mature. She seems to like you and she's willing to take the risk to show it. If you are really stuck in the "friend-zone" all the aloofness in the world is not going to make you more interesting romantically.

Don't go so far. Just avoid seeming desparate or underconfident. You can directly let it be known that you're interested but not a push over. If she's the kind of girl who is attracted to indifferent guys, then she's not the girl for you.

Carl.
I don't think I advocated playing games. I advocated him giving her a shit test to gauge her interest and see if she felt the same way about him. If she doesn't contact him, it means that she was no longer interested. Plus, this guy seems like he's around my age. If there's one thing I've learned, being direct does not work with girls. They are just too immature and fickle at this age. Again, my 2 cents. Take it or leave it.