then you should request that she introduce you to her.
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
I have, but she's just laughed it off. I met her other ex.
That wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be.
But I don't know.
I believe exes should stay away. Far far away.
And just to stir it up, my ex texted me and asked me to hang out.
But I haven't hung out with her.
have you read their texts?
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
Well, at least you'll never have to worry if a surprise pregnancy is yours or not.
Last edited by Junket; 02-06-09 at 06:24 AM.
You need to end it and you need to end it now.
Your girlfriend is a controlling and manipulative person, trust me I have dealt with everything you have listed, word for word.
Shit seems great, but it will break down with time until you're so feed up you end it.
I don't believe in setting boundaries for my gf either, but she is equally resposible for knowing what I would approve of and respecting my interests, your gf doesn't do either.
Its not setting boundaries, its setting standards for yourself, two completely different things.
Respect yourself, move on from this high school terror.
"What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
You fear your own anger, the drive to do great and terrible things."
The Warmonger
I'd say if this is a one time thing, let it slide. If she seems like she is relying on her ex more and more, then it's time to take action. Talking to an ex once is forgivable, especially if it's only occasional, but regularly there is something that is up.
Also, her friends are not good friends to her if they are getting involved in your relationship. That's ****ed up, a bit more so than her talking to her ex. I've had friends who have done stuff I didn't approve of, but I would never go blabbing to their current. Maybe these girls (I'm assuming) are into you? Just keep your eye out for drama. Talk to your gf without making a bunch of angry comments, but tell her how uncomfortable that makes you.
But know that it is rare for exes to be able to be friends after a break-up, Bordering on impossible.
Sometimes I worry about being a success in a mediocre world
-Lily Tomlin
how do you know that they text each other?
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
was it ever sexual?
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
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Sorry, I'm not trying to suggest your relationship is abusive, just figured I'd throw that out there for your future reference.
Girls can be nasty.
Y'know how women think they can slap her hit a man and get away with it?
Imagine a woman thinking the same thing in a same sex relationship.