My gf is hanging out with her ex.

[zombie_loo89]

could you be overreacting?

I would honestly hope I am overreacting.

[Sonrisa]

then you should request that she introduce you to her.

[zombie_loo89]

I have, but she's just laughed it off. I met her other ex.
That wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be.
But I don't know.

I believe exes should stay away. Far far away.

And just to stir it up, my ex texted me and asked me to hang out.
But I haven't hung out with her.

[Sonrisa]

have you read their texts?

[Junket]

Well, at least you'll never have to worry if a surprise pregnancy is yours or not.

[Cbrider]

Yeah, I'm just not the type of person to tell someone they can't hang out with someone else. And I don't know if there was ever a power balance.

I think we have a good balance with everything else in our relationship, but she does have power over me. I just don't know. It's not fair to me that she's pursuing this ex that she talks a lot of shit about. And of course I'm gone for the summer so I'm sure her ex waited til I went back home for the summer to make that move. This situations messed up.

You need to end it and you need to end it now.

Your girlfriend is a controlling and manipulative person, trust me I have dealt with everything you have listed, word for word.

Shit seems great, but it will break down with time until you're so feed up you end it.

I don't believe in setting boundaries for my gf either, but she is equally resposible for knowing what I would approve of and respecting my interests, your gf doesn't do either.

Its not setting boundaries, its setting standards for yourself, two completely different things.

Respect yourself, move on from this high school terror.

[Rollerderby]

I'd say if this is a one time thing, let it slide. If she seems like she is relying on her ex more and more, then it's time to take action. Talking to an ex once is forgivable, especially if it's only occasional, but regularly there is something that is up.

Also, her friends are not good friends to her if they are getting involved in your relationship. That's ****ed up, a bit more so than her talking to her ex. I've had friends who have done stuff I didn't approve of, but I would never go blabbing to their current. Maybe these girls (I'm assuming) are into you? Just keep your eye out for drama. Talk to your gf without making a bunch of angry comments, but tell her how uncomfortable that makes you.

But know that it is rare for exes to be able to be friends after a break-up, Bordering on impossible.

[zombie_loo89]

have you read their texts?

No, I'm not that nosey, but I probably would if she let me.

I am so torn. Stuck.

this is all a drama ****!

[Sonrisa]

how do you know that they text each other?

[Junket]

this is all a drama ****!

Of course it is, you're still teenagers.

Mind you, I've heard lesbian relationships are more likely to be emotionally abusive than others.

Would it surprise you considering you're dealing with two women?

[zombie_loo89]

Of course it is, you're still teenagers.

Mind you, I've heard lesbian relationships are more likely to be emotionally abusive than others.

Would it surprise you considering you're dealing with two women?

Lol, not at all.
And I know they text because she tells me they do, and I was there the first time her ex texted her.

[Sonrisa]

was it ever sexual?

[Junket]

[url]http://www.musc.edu/vawprevention/lesbianrx/factsheet.shtml[/url]

[zombie_loo89]

was it ever sexual?

I would hope not. I doubt it. I know my girlfriend would never cheat on me.

Especially with this girl.

[Junket]

Sorry, I'm not trying to suggest your relationship is abusive, just figured I'd throw that out there for your future reference.

Girls can be nasty.

Y'know how women think they can slap her hit a man and get away with it?

Imagine a woman thinking the same thing in a same sex relationship.