Ok the guy i've been seeing lately (my ex from way back), we had been texting, talking, and seeing each other.
Until the other nite when i left the club because he seemed pre-occupied with his phone. I asked him who it was, he told me it was some girl from work. He was obviously trying to get me to leave to be with her, so i asked him if i should just go, he said i could do what i want if im not having a good time...needless to say at that point i wasnt. Text him on my way home saying i felt like i was gonna puke because of the way he acted and we had already slept togther twice. So he says he was sorry," didnt want to hurt me". I figured that was it because most men will at least wait until the date is over before trying to be with someone else, then i had to visualize him being with another girl right after me.
Sorry so long, but the next day i get 2 texts saying "sorry again bout last nite", do you wanna hang out and go shopping with me"?????
My first inclination was to tell him where to put it, but i wanted to see what conspired. Anyways i went with him, played cool and we had a decent time. He didnt bring it up and neither did i except to say he met with a friend after i left. So the fact is even though we're not in a relationship, we were seeing where things were going i thought, and i have no idea what to think or where we stand now.
Any help is greatly appreciated,