Hi, so i am currently in a relationship that i feel has done a complete 180 in the romance/sex department. Me and my partner have been together just over 2 years and we have lived together for about 1, although we just got our own place (no flatmates) in June this year and i feel that is when things began to change. He just doesnt seem interested in me like that anymore, we used to be intimate almost daily and now i have to initiate it all the time and i get denied most of them due to tiredness or some other reason. Its only when he is drunk he gets really into it which is great but i cant drink with him as i am 5 months pregnant so i find that a tad annoying. Ill also go to bed and ask him to come with me and he'll say something like he wants to watch tv a little longer, so ill go to bed and wait for him onl to go out to the lounge less than half an hour later to find him fast asleep.. Another thing he does that makes me wonder what the hell is going on is as soon as he wakes up, like within seconds, is jumps onto the laptop to play this stupid game where as it used to be me. I even say things like i wish you gave me half the attention you give that game, get shitty and leave the room and he just doesnt care he will continue to play the game for hours in bed, then just give me shit about being dramatic. I dont make to much of a deal over all this during the week as he does have work etc (although this never ever used to be a factor) but the weekends i just expect some attention. It doesnt necessarily have to result in sex although ofcourse i want that too but just some actual affection like he used to be like. I dont get what has happened, or what i should do, how do i fix this? He has also been going into work every sat, which i know sounds suspect but i have to drive him in and pick him up so i do believe that is what he is doing. I have tried talking to him - it seriously doesnt do anything he just thinks im creating issues where there doesnt need to be but ive been feeling like this for a while now and it doesnt feel good. Also another thing that i dont knw if it has anything to do with all this or not is in april he got done for drunk driving and it was such a stressful part of our relationship, i kindof gave him an ultimatum either me or alcohol so he stopped drinking and that was fine for a little while, then it wasnt so we compromised on a 6 pack a weekend and that was fine for a while and now its not.. so i dont know if he resents me for ll this maybe, or he is trying to make me think he is more passionate with alcohol streaming through his veins or he just actually needs to be half cut to love me i dont know!! Its driving me crazy trying to work it out. I have read that men can go off their pregnant girlfriends but i dont think this is it, well i hope not.. as i said im 5 months but barely showing yet. Any advice or insight would be much appreciated.