Girl im in love with has a boyfriend...

[dbzzx]

The girl im in love with has a boyfriend but i can tell that she likes me, the thing is i dont know how to tell her without messing up her relationship with her boyfriend(i really hate doing things like that)

I can tell she like me because everytime i talk to her she complements me on my looks and hugs me(sometimes she holds onto me for over a minute)

She even said by accident (i think) under her breath that i was alot more attractive then her current boyfriend

The thing is i think about her almost every minute of the day and have even written poems about her(that i didn't send)

what should i do???

[TAVS]

You should stop being an obsessive stalker, forget about it, let her be with her boyfriend. When/If the time comes they break up, then make your move. Duh.

[karot]

Been in that position, was for two years, just let them run there course. Your not going to make anyone happy trying to break them up she will need grieving time.

Every relationship ive seen where a girl has gone from one guy to the next has ended in tragedy.

[dbzzx]

The thing is my friend who is almost like a sister to her says her boyfriend is a real ***hole and doesnt treat her good or even like he is her girlfriend..so i also feel bad

[theotherguy0123]

so your pretty much in the same situation as I'm in, i know how you feel buddy, just one difference, I dont know the bf of the girl i like. But I'm so falling for her...I just gotta be friends with her right now, definitely don't try to break up somebody else's relationship, just gotta wait it out i guess...

i know it sucks, its a sucky feelings...

[TyRuK]

Yeah I'm in the same boat and it really really sucks! But the worst part for me is that the girl was in love with me and it wasn't untill she got a boyfriend that i realised how darn amazing she is and how much i want to spend every second of every day with her! Just take time and wait for an opportunity (sp maybe?) then go in for the kill!

[Only-virgins]

tell her without messing up her relationship with her boyfriend

I wouldn't care.

You should stop being an obsessive stalker, forget about it, let her be with her boyfriend. When/If the time comes they break up, then make your move. Duh.

You are a pansy. If she is meant to be with her current boyfriend then she will reject him.

[Hugo Pickle]

If she likes you and your not taken then go for it. Women are nesters man, they rarely leave one tree before finding another. So usually even though they may not tell you, most women you meet have a boyfriend or whatever, they just can’t bring themselves to end a relationship without some other person to grab onto. So don’t let the fact that she all ready has a boyfriend really bother you. And if she does like you don’t get all in her face about it, she will not admit it and she will only treat you negatively for pointing it out that she is weak and will not end a relationship before trying to start a new one. Some women have even told me that it is how they test their new man, if he can’t handle the old boyfriend then he isn’t strong enough for her.

[dbzzx]

So would it be wierd if i sent her a love poem?

Or should i wait until(who knows how long ) She breaks up with him?

[Hugo Pickle]

Yes, love poems are just wierd no matter what if you send them to people who is not your girlfriend. But why would you set yourself up for heart ach by writing a loev poem to a girl with a boyfrined. If i was you i would keep that poem in your pocket

[Only-virgins]

So would it be wierd if i sent her a love poem?

Or should i wait until(who knows how long ) She breaks up with him?

Poems are awesome. Do it. Even if she doesn't respond to it or gives a negative response you will feel much better...trust me....been there. Write and give a poem or confession for yourself and not her. To many people analyze things like this to much...jusst go for it if you dont care about her boyfriend...and unless he is your brother I dont see why you should. I think your just worried and if you keep at this you will keep finding axcuses to not do it.

that it is how they test their new man, if he can’t handle the old boyfriend then he isn’t strong enough for her.

That is pretty fawking stupid. Bench pressing just doesn't do it for them anymore? pfft lol. "strong" in what way?. If you get a guy who doesnt care about prvious BFs then he most likely will not care about having multiple GFs....figure that looping logic out ladies.

[Hugo Pickle]

What? You mean to tell me that women trade down instead of up? Yeah, right! That's a good one. Only if she has dated a real possessive jack off will she usually date someone weaker than the last person she dated.

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[theotherguy0123]

It's ok Huge_pickle, some people just dont get it, no need to argue.

[dbzzx]

She broke up with him today!!!

[bigcr27]

Kill him...Like Stewy Griffen. That's a joke, don't kill. I'd say confront her. Tell her compliments also. Say in a jokingly matter, I love you. If says I love you back, not in a jokingly matter, then you might be on to something. Tell her that she should be with her boyfriend. I did that once, and the girl soon broke up with her boyfriend.