Overall advice on my girl situation...

[HelterSpecter]

I'll give a brief but detailed low down on this as best as I can.

I've known this girl for a little over a month. It was the end of this summer and we ended up hanging out the last couple days before she went to college. After she left she left me a message telling me im a gem and don't go finding other girls. I took that as she is interested and hopefully wants to make a relationship.

She told me I had to come visit her for the welcome weekend. I stayed with her the entire weekend with her. We did a lot of such as partying together and got close but didn't get too intimate. After then we practically talk everyday online.

This weekend she was thinking about coming home so I asked if she'd like to go to the Renaissance Fest. She gave me a ill think about it answer and she ended up not coming home for this weekend. So now I would just really like to see this girl soon to spend time and find out while im with her if she feels the same to get into a relationship. So im thinking about just asking her if she'd want me to come out there for the weekend again.

So my questions are...
With what you read is this girl even interested?
Should I "invite" myself to see her?
In what ways could I find out if she does like me?

if more info helps, ask away.

Thanks

[Gigabitch]

Yes, pursue her. Why not? I think she was just playing a little game, or maybe she thinks the Renaissance Fest is dorky. Come up with something else. Don't give up.

[HelterSpecter]

I shall pursue. But the thing is she was talking about going and she likes those "dorky" kind of things, as do I. Well when I get a chance to which will be soon, I'm going to ask her what she thinks on me coming out there for the weekend. This should break the line on if she does like me or not. Also when I ask her should I say something about me coming to see her especially in a way?

Thanks, Tim

[HelterSpecter]

P.S. ....Score.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, really? Update, please!

[HelterSpecter]

Well it was a Score for her telling me I can come for the weekend. The time overall wasn't bad, we all had fun with the party hookups. But on the 1 on 1 level, this time I couldn't feel much affection coming from her to me. The first night we had walked snuggled together but that could've been because I foolishly forget my jacket when it was cold. Besides that we walked with each other but couldn't catch a want to hold hands and I think if I jumped it without any idea that could go bad with a awkwardly pull away. Also I found out she's one that if someone that wants to get in touch with her that she doesn't care to and want to be in touch she won't tell the person straight. Possible that she looks at me the same way...Well we never were in a 1 and 1 alone time to get close comfortably and speak openly. Soo I'm thinking I may just be blunt and ask her about "us". So what do you think of the whole thing and my plan, any bright ideas?

Thanks