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  1. 30-04-04, 09:52 AM #1
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    i wish i could understand guys..

    well b4 me and my ex started goin out...he was goin out wit this girl, but he never really liked her...i saw her online journal one time n i read all the shit she used to say bout him, cus he didnt like her n didnt treat her good...well me and my ex broke up like a month ago...he started goin out wit some "mutt" n he even said that he was doin it to forget bout me because he still loved me..i mean come on it was 1 year and a half.....well he broke up wit this "mutt" n now he says that the girl he was goin out wit b4 is the love of his life...im seriously lost in all this shit...i mean not that i wanna go bak wit him or nuttin..but i wanna kno wut the hell is wrong wit him..lol...he's goin to the NAVY soon, so im thinkin all he wants is some fun b4 he leaves....wut u guys think?
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    Ive given up trying to understand how men think. They always throw away the woman they claim to love the most. Then they regret it later. But they still do it.
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    im still tryin to figure out wut the hell happened...i mean he was tellin me i luv u till the other day...n he even admitted that he missed me n luved me, n other stuff that he did that means he still cares for me...but i dunno...i need more opinion please...
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    say wha?

    well im not sure what that guy is thinking myself, and I am a guy, i wouldnt pin that behavior on all men..........maybe he doesnt know what he wants and was just running around with this ex girl and the "mutt" for sex perhaps? I dont know the guy so i cant say for sure but my guess is it has something to do with that and that he has no clue what love is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluesummer
    They always throw away the woman they claim to love the most. Then they regret it later. But they still do it.
    Never......


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    missin you,
    just one question. Why? Why is it important for you to figure him out? I mean, me, in similar circumstances -- I'd forget that he exists, one year and a half later!
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    i guess im just curious...
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    I'm new here and I have a similar situation only I am in the guy role..(yes I am male too) lol. I don't know why we do it.. I'm completely at a loss as to why I did though for me it was losing sight of myself.. still don't think that helps you much sorry.. I don't know what goes on in other peoples heads.. the only way you are going to know is to wait and see.. take things a step at a time and be extra careful... thats about the best I can come up with at the moment...
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluesummer
    Ive given up trying to understand how men think. They always throw away the woman they claim to love the most. Then they regret it later. But they still do it.
    very very true... I have done this. But I have learned from it also...
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    ummm I just think men are generally confusing... Its a circle... Men don't understand us, Women don't understand them... Its pretty much a lose lose situation... lol
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    well i don't know what kind of guy he is but he doesn't do the same things that all us guys do. for me, i know i've loved someone i wanted to be with the rest of my life once. it doesn't go as planned. nobody's to blame and stuff like that. all i know is that when i was with "her", i knew how much she loved me or showed she loved me, regardless of it being fake or watever. the point is that i KNEW she loved me, so i was content with that. i didn't expect us to ever break up so i started to take things for granted. like assuming she will always be there and not giving her reminders that i'm there for her and stuff like that. it got to a point where we were just together just because. it wasn't out of love anymore. at this point, things become so bland that it makes it hard to stay together. the dude probably knew how much you missed him so he took it for granted and made you feel the way you do. girls need attention...
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluesummer
    Ive given up trying to understand how men think. They always throw away the woman they claim to love the most. Then they regret it later. But they still do it.
    not all of us do, and it goes bath ways, some of us give everything we have to the women we love and thats still not enough.
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    tell him to quit the navy

    I don't know what to think about your situation but tell HIM to QUIT the NAVY before he gets himself in a world of shit that he can fix. I just came back from the marines and let me tell you it is NOT worth it in ANY sense of the word. Flipping burgers at MacDonalds is better than being in the Navy, or marines....

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