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    In need of some advice.. I'm very confused.

    Hello, my name is Cao Pi, and I want to tell you a story.

    Some time ago, I met this girl online. We'll just say her name is Zhen Ji. When I first met Zhen, we hit it off really well.. We always talked, we would spend every waking moment with eachother, we were open to eachother, and so on.

    As the months went by, I realised that I have fallen in love with Zhen. Zhen and I got into a really huge fight a while back, but luckily we were able to fix our problems, and my love for her is as strong as ever. Zhen knows how I feel about her, but she doesn't like to talk about it, yet she continues to spend every waking moment with me, she makes me laugh until I cry, and she seems to get upset whenever I have to leave.

    Zhen is always playfully mean to me. She calls me names, and we laugh about it. I don't take offense, and I know that she really does care about me, and would be crushed if I were to ever leave her life.

    I'm confused.. She won't talk about it (love) with me, but she continues to want to be around me, continues to play around with me by teasing me and acting mean, and to make me laugh even when I told her that her making me laugh just makes me fall in love with her even more.

    At this point, I don't know what's she's thinking about. I want to ask her, but I don't want to upset her.

    Could someone possibly tell me what I should do about this situation? I really am in love with Zhen.

    Thank you for reading.

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    Dynasty Warriors fan huh?

    Is this an online-only relationship? how old are you and her?

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    Yes. Online-only right now.. We voice chat all the time.

    I am 21, she is 18.
    Last edited by Cao Pi; 13-08-08 at 10:36 PM.

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    Is there a chance you meet offline?

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    There's always a possibility for that.. But that doesn't help me right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cao Pi View Post
    There's always a possibility for that.. But that doesn't help me right now.
    It needs to. It was a very good question. If meeting offline is only a possibility, then she is doing the right thing by not getting attached. Why get attached to someone you only MIGHT meet offline?
    I don't chase, I replace.

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