thing for a girl who has a bf.

[blackzj52]

so i went to high school with this chick and now we both go to osu together. i became somewhat friends with her winter of senior year. real outgoing, smart, and friendly girl. so now we have psych together and weve studied together a few times, and we get along great, both laugh, both have a good time
she has a bf who goes to school in new york. heres a twist, his sister goes here and is friends with both me and this girl.

this past friday we hung out, with a couple other friends we knew from highschool. then her and her roomate came back to my dorm for awhile and we chilled out. before we came back she was cold so i openened up my arms and she came and tried to get warm. so a couple minutes later i asked her if she was warm and she goes "yeah, im just really comfortable now"...and she made no effort to move.
so then we all go back to my dorm (with her roomate), and i used her stomach as a pillow to lay on, we were all tired. and she had her arm around my chest. then she got cold again and i offered her a sweatshit then to switch and she cuddled up on me. all this right in front of her roomate. we sat up and all talked alot. they were gonna spend the night but then her roomates phone died so she had to go back and charge it

weve had conversations about relationships and stuff like that. she mentioned that she can be kinda flirty when single, and that she is old fashioned and likes the guy to come to her. then the convo of making out came up, and she was like yeah i havnt made out with my bf in like 3 months, and i was like yeah that was about the last time i made out with my ex was. then we both were like, yeah that sucks. and she goes, well atleast you can do something about it. then i said well technically you can too. and she then said no id never do that to dan (her bf).

so im wondering if i should try anything. i mean i think shes showed signs of interest, but the whole bf thing is hanging me up.
what do you guys think?
girls, would you do this/act this way if you were in a relationship with somebody?

im trying to figure out if shes just REALLY friendly or if shes interested and actually being flirty.
iv talked to cain about this plenty of times (he thinks shes interested too)
im leaving somethings out, simply cuz im trying to keep this short. but there have been other things too.

[blackzj52]

bump
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[agatha]

Shes just flirty.

If I'm in her situation, I will also do
the same thing. lol!
That's nice. It's another way of exploring.

Why not try to court her. If she said yes, then
that means she also like you.
Just try.

[Mish]

A no is a no

Leave her alone, she's got a boyfriend

[Angelo_91]

stupid ****ing bitch... why do chicks with boyfriends do that shit.

[hareluya]

Flirty.
If you like her, don't do it.
If you don't...then who cares?

[blackzj52]

A no is a no

Leave her alone, she's got a boyfriend

she never said no to anything.
all i said was that she techically could make out with another person.

A no is a no

Leave her alone, she's got a boyfriend

Shes just flirty.

If I'm in her situation, I will also do
the same thing. lol!
That's nice. It's another way of exploring.

Why not try to court her. If she said yes, then
that means she also like you.
Just try.

elaborate please.



i think shes a cool girl and wouldnt wanna lose a friendship because of this if she doesnt like me.

but if she didnt like me, would she have cuddled with me?
this girl cn be flirty i guess, but is no slut.

i forgot to mention she doesnt get to talk to her bf alot, hasnt seen him in awhile, and when she was over here studying the other night he called and she talked to him for like 20 mins. my friend had called a little before that and told me he was having troubles with his gf so i was on the phone with him for like 10 mins so i guess that was justified. but from her convo it almost came across like they were jsut really good/close friends and not really bf/gf. altho she did say "i love you too" at the end, but it didnt seem like it was really emotional or like she hadnt talked to him in awhile....

[Mish]

then the convo of making out came up, and she was like yeah i havnt made out with my bf in like 3 months, and i was like yeah that was about the last time i made out with my ex was. then we both were like, yeah that sucks. and she goes, well atleast you can do something about it. then i said well technically you can too. and she then said no id never do that to dan (her bf).
.

she never said no to anything.
all i said was that she techically could make out with another person.

You're living in a fantasy world

Leave her alone before her boyfriend finds you and punches you out

[HUNT3R]

Mishanya is right. Don't make a move while she has a bf. Things could just get messy. Even if things are shaky in their relationship, that's no excuse.

[Charlie Boy II]

I don't know, it sounds like she's already straying so I can't see her keeping up a long distance relationship in College. No one should anyway, it's a stupid idea.

I would just keep on keeping on. It's her boyfriend, not yours, so I wouldn't lose sleep over their relationship.

[blackzj52]

lol im not. i think ill just stay friends for now (maybe with the occasional physical contact if the oppurtunity presents itself).
what sucks right now is like all the girls im somewhat interested in have bfs that dont go here. i know many of those relationships wont work out and will be gone by winter quarter. but there is another chick im interested in, who happens to be my best friend's gf's sister. and she also happens to be the daughter of my doctor. lol small world.
so im talking to her sis about it right now lol. well see.

[boobaa]

Thats why I don't trust girls. Seen to many like that.

[blackzj52]

anybody else have any input or anything to say?