Hi gentlemen, i have a question for you...
..what does it mean when you have been in a serious relationship for a few years, are in your mid twenties, tell your gf that you lover her, she's the one, you want to get married and have babies with her...
...but you still have not proposed??
and you know she really wants it? (and she's really really trying not to nag you about it?)
well that's my situation. we have been together for a few years and i would love to be engaged to move on in our relationship, move to the next step. i dont want to get married right away, because i want to enjoy being engaged for a while. (and he knows this) so what's the big deal?
is he maybe not as commited as he says? is he saying this to make me happy but really he doesn't want to marry me?
i ask him these questions and he still assures me he does but that he isn't ready. what would make him ready? is it just a feeling he has to have? is there a point when i shouldn't wait anymore?