Cut and long story short I have been seeing this girl for off and on for about 6 weeks and this week we became boyfriend and girlfiriend. I am still now 100% sure if it will work out for us as she has lots of problems and has just moved 1 amd a half hours away from me and has been treated badly by blokes in the past and she said that I am different and so nice to her that she finds it hard to get her head around. So when do you really know when the girl you really like and she really likes you take it to the next step and become and itam and how do you know that it will work out.