What is he thinking?

[overLOVE]

Okay, quesiton for the guys.

I've been with this guy for 2 years, but we recently broke up... and it was a terrible break up. Him and I have been best friends for about 10 years before dating, and he has claimed to have loved me since middle school.

I haven't spoken to him for a while now, but I still have feelings for him... I mean c'mon, he's been in my life for more than a decade.

From a guy's perspective, does he still love me? Does he still think about me? He has a good heart and has never been with any girl before me.

[redmagnum]

Of course he is still thinking about you! And no doubt still loves you. You may not know it, but the guy's probably a mess right now....... I have dated girls for a few months, and when things didn't work out I thought about them for a while afterward........but that's just me.....

After 12+ years of knowing someone, you can't just turn those feelings off like a switch........

I know that if it were me, as the guy, I would probably be waiting for things to cool off, and then trying to find the right time to contact you and ask if you wanted to meet up somewhere to see where things are at.......

[Sonrisa]

it really depends why you broke up in the first place

[overLOVE]

Let's just say we broke up and got back together over a span of 3 months... and those were the WORST 3 months ever.

[Mathias]

No, not "let's just say". What happened? It's not really going to work unless you give us something.