Can' read this girl

[Mark1]

There was a girl in my class last semester. Very pretty. We didn't talk much because we sat on other sides of the room. She was also quiet in the class setting, but when she spoke she seemed nice.

I hadn't seen her since December, until a Friday night in early May at the bar. I don't drink and she knows that, even so, when she saw me she came running over, "Maaaarkk!!" I got a kiss (cheek), and we held each others hands while talking. She wasn't very drunk, and her friend was totally fine. Before she leaves she gives me her number and tells me to call her Saturday night to go out to another bar together.

Just to make sure, I say, "You're gonna remember giving me your number, right?" And she looks me straight in the eye and says, "Yes. i'm not like that, I'll remember."

Even so, I'm like, "okay whatever, she's drunk, she probably doesn't really mean it." But I text her Saturday anyways to see if she wants to go.

She replies, "Hey I have plans tonight, but what are you doing for dinner?"

So from there we've been texting. She's went back home for the summer, but we kept in touch.

Well, this semester rolls around, and we still talk and keep in touch. Problem is, when I ask her about dinner, she replies with: "Like as friends?" or "Who else is going?"

I assumed this to mean she didn't want it to be a date, but whenever I see her on campus, she gives me a hug and talks to me a lot, so I'm getting mixed signals.

She also told me which bar she will be at for Halloween on Saturday, and I figured if she didnt want to see me she didn't have to tell me that. Maybe she just wants to be w me when there is alcohol involved?

My plan is to go on Sat and flirt with her and see what happens. Then, next week, just ask her straight up, "would you like to go on a date with me"

Thoughts?

[bak2881]

I think you should definitely try. In my opinion, if you guys weren't that close as friends, and she ran up and kissed you (cheek) there is most likely an attraction there. I know I don't wanna put my lips on anyone I find unattractive. But as for the uncertainty she seems to have about what she is wanting, maybe there is something going on in her life that is a little confusing right now. It could be a possible boyfriend other than you, an ex, or just some stressful stuff otherwise. Or maybe she just kinda wants to feel you out and see what you are wanting before she decides what kind of dinner to go and have with you...just my opinions, take it however you want good luck tho, either way.

[toshiba]

What did you say back to her dinner question?

"How about a date?" Would work.