im on this website thats not a dating site. i have been chatting with this one girl just asking a few questions, and to be honest, I would be interested in hanging out with her. I'm sure she will need to get to know me before meeting me so what's a good way to bring it up? I'm afraid if I just come out and say it, it might scare her off and she won't have any interest in meeting.
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08-06-12, 08:36 PM #1
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How to bring up hanging out?
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Women are attracted to confidence. If you act really nervous about this, you might spook her. If you act like it's most natural thing in the world for her to meet you somewhere for coffee, she will probably feel more comfortable about it.
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Invite her to something - coffee, walk, visit to sex shop
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i know confidence is key i just cant help it Originally Posted by VincenzoG91
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09-06-12, 02:20 AM #5
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Well then you will have to over come it now won't you.
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09-06-12, 03:06 AM #6
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You SHOULD ask her to hang out. If she gets scared away, she wasn't right for you. It's a win-win for you. You don't want to date some chick that is afraid of her own shadow do you?
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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