Needing opinions

[ashleyyy]

I met this guy about 7 months ago and we practically spent the whole summer together, he literally stayed at my house every night. I was often a snoop and read through his phone and found that he had been texting a bunch of other girls but I don't think he ever met up with them, considering he was either at work or with me. I let it go because he was moving away at the end of summer for college and we weren't actually dating. Neither of us have really talked about how we feel but lately he says things like I'm "special" and "dear" to him. We have said we like each other but that's the extent of discussing anything. I'm just wondering if he is worth my time because even though we aren't even officially together and I'm almost positive he still talks to other girls and it bothers me. He lives pretty far away now so I'm just wondering if it's even worth it to keep in contact anymore?

[Ladybuggg]

U r weird or not honest to us.how can someone let a guy they kñow that short stay long at their house. And noelw ask what ther is between u and him. R u crazy.u should have find out way before even letting him know where u live. U cant say much if u was acting cheap.and weird enough u have notting with him.

[ashleyyy]

I met him at college and he lived near me. He started staying with me part way in the summer after I go to know him.

[steviej]

Sounds like he's feeding you lines to keep you interested so he can hook up with you when its convenient.

[Phil Davies]

If he's going to college forget it. Seriously. Unless he's in the marching band and has a whiskey allergy just let him have his fun without you driving yourself nuts over it. College relationships are brutal, even if you go to the same school.

[Wakeup]

Yes.. they're often temporary at best.

[ashleyyy]

Thanks for the replies

It's just confusing to me because he texts / calls me every day but I have no idea what he wants. I don't want to bother asking because he lives far away now but I think you're all right and it was just a fling!