Unacceptable name calling names in a relationship, lmao

[Jffs24]

Have you ever said any?
I repeatedly called an ex a rude cunt! so much others began referring to her as- - oh hey there is rude cunt.

I got em all.
Cocksucker
Mother****er
asshole
Prick
Douchebag
sonofabitch
POS

[michelle23]

I've called him a prick once or twice but that's it as far as I know. I generally don't resort to name calling and neither does he.

[Jffs24]

Yeah, I admit it is childish to name call -- but when so PO'd it happens. I think I got called more names than I ever called.
Most women I know like to argue and I prefer to walk away not caring who gets the last parting shot.
But that one ex, ****ing hell. And helped I knew she hated being called a cunt.

Growing up my grandmother would call gramps a turd, lmao. To her that was probably a big comeback. lmao.

[HeartIsAching]

Have you ever said any?
I repeatedly called an ex a rude cunt! so much others began referring to her as- - oh hey there is rude cunt.

I got em all.
Cocksucker
Mother****er
asshole
Prick
Douchebag
sonofabitch
POS

Yeah... with my ex. We both pretty much used any unforgiveable name fairly regularly.

With my wife? Never.

[Jffs24]

How do you and your wife manage never to go there? Just a lot of mutual respect?

[HeartIsAching]

For one thing, both of us have had enough of abusive relationships, both of us have had training in that regard - her from a victim's perspective and mine from an offender's, and name-calling is emotional abuse.

For another, I have never felt the urge. I can't speak for her, but I don't think she has either. We've also never argued, which is part of it. We have discussed things until we figure out what we're going to do, but never argued.

[anonymous_a]

Me ex and I were super toxic together and called each other every name in the book. My current bf and I have one of the healthiest relationships I've ever been in, and I don't remember a single time I've ever called him a name, over the last year and a half.

[michelle23]

Jffs its not normal in a healthy relationship. It is abusive. If you and your girl have toxic arguments-then you are no good for each other.

[smackie9]

I never flat out called my husband any of those things, but I do point out he is acting like one of those things. Like "You are acting douchey" or "Stop being a pissy pants" lol. We are not really rude to each other anyways.

[HeartIsAching]

Jffs its not normal in a healthy relationship. It is abusive. If you and your girl have toxic arguments-then you are no good for each other.

If you've called your BF names and vice-versa, then so are you.

Pot, meet kettle.

[HeartIsAching]

*and now the back-pedaling begins*

[michelle23]

What are you talking about? Me and my bf rarely argue and when we do its resolved quickly without name calling. I have said to him once or twice years ago when we were first together "your being a prick" he used to be stubborn at times but hes never stubborn now.

Dono what your problem is HIA but put me on ignore if your gonna start this shite again

[HeartIsAching]

Ahh... so now it was once or twice years ago.

[michelle23]

yes I did say once or twice in my original post. You calling me abusive is just laughable.. I dont have an abusive bone in my body SMH. Now I have better things to do so bye

[Starnique]

^^^^lmao.

Yeah, I have. If somebody really take me there, I will hurt them with my mouth. I will go in. I have a problem with people talking to me a certain way or sneak dissing. I'm working on my attitude and it has really gotten better. Somebody I don't know, it's like..lets do it. But if its someone close to me, i'm soft. A crybaby but I don't like to let them see it.

My ex and I called each other plenty ungodly names. He's never called me a cunt. Cunt. I wouldnt like that.