Confused about situation with ex - female advice required

[aybc123]

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[Agnus]

Can you shrink your essay to a bunch of words? Or do you really think you are another Leo Tolstoy with his War and Peace?

[aybc123]

1) I wasn't asking for your opinion (you're a dude, dude).

2) If you don't want to read it, don't.

[Agnus]

Thank you. If you are unable to do that yourself, there are a lot of shrinks around.

[aybc123]

That reply doesn't even make sense, are you a bot?

[Agnus]

I don't have an ex to be confused with.

[aybc123]

I think i can see why you don't have an ex..

Could you please stop trolling in my thread? I posted it here because i genuinely would like the input of women who can be bothered to read my story. Not for some guy who gets a kick out of being a douche on the internet.

[Agnus]

I see. Your ex hasn't satisfied you completely yet. Now you want other females around the globe to do the same to you. It's a lot of courage, you know. So how about shrinking your junk?

[4 ratties]

She's not contacting u because u pissed her off! People have limits u know. She probably finally came to reality and realized she couldn't get over the fact that you dated HER FRIEND after u broke up! Thats a no no! And the fact that u told her u didn't want to talk to her anymore and deleted her and THeN continued to harass her! Just leave her alone. Jesus Christ. She has every right to stop talking to u. You don't sound stable at all.

[aybc123]

Deleted my original post as to be honest I dont think I can take anymore replies after that. What you said was extremely harsh, but I think the harshest things are so difficult to hear because they're true. What you said really hit home. I do deserve this, i've acted like a dick and hurt a person i loved in the past and no matter what they said since then there was no fixing that deep down and now i've probably hurt them again by not being able to deal with their trying to be happy and move on and i'm getting my just desserts in both regards. Thinking about it like that I probably don't deserve for her to speak to me again and the best way of fixing it is just for me to go away and stay away.

I didn't mean to set out to hurt or piss her off by deleting her and then trying to speak to her again, i was just being true to how i was feeling at the time, but you're right that how i was (and am) feeling is not very stable, which i hate because it's not like me. I think i'm just horrified by how badly i've ****ed everything up.

Anyway thank you. Im going to leave it now and just try to not make the same mistakes in the future. I'll still hope that she will forgive me though for my latest asshattery.

[4 ratties]

I have had times of weakness and changing my mind drastically with a person too. It happens. No reason to beat yourself up about it. But it does push ppl away as you've seen. I'm sure once things settle for her, (idk how long that will take ) she will contact you. She will probably be curious as to what your up to. Just leave her be for now she then if she contacts you again, be mature about it and make sure to not tell her you want to stop talking, if you might change your mind later. Sounds like u won't let that happen though and learned something. I was just harsh with my words before because u acted like something is wrong with her and how dare she not talk to you. Like I said before, ppl have limits and if sounds like it wasn't worth the back and forth anymore for her, but I'm sure she'll contact u in the future. Goodluck