Hi everyone
Let me please start with saying I never ask advice online so this is a bit strange to me. I met my boyfriend 3 years ago and since the last few months it's just going down hill. I don't have as strong feelings for him as I used to and I just don't know what do with it.
Now since I'm still going to school I can barely go to him because he lives 2 hours away from me. At this time he has no job, no responsibilities and just spends his days in his room gaming or so. I kind of wish he would visit me at school as I have half days of school sometimes but he doesn't. Doesn't even cross his mind. When I talk to him about this he usually gets mad at me and starts pointing the finger at me with things like "you are not even graduated!" or "you dont even work full time!" It seriously drives me crazy, as the only thing I want to do is discuss something that frustrates me about him but he just starts looking at things that I'm doing wrong.
The only contact we have is either through the phone or via Skype but it's usually just chatting. But not even then he can bring up the effort to talk to me, he is either calling, gaming or catching up on other things while I'm being ignored. When I meet with him in real life it's better but I still get quite annoyed with him, sometimes with even the most little things he does that just irk me.
He just does not seem interested in me anymore but yet claims that he loves me, I have a blog which he never asks about. He never asks about school unless I start talking about it, same with my hobbies. Last time I said I was trying to get my arabesque done and he couldn't even be bothered asking what an arabesque exactly is. I even asked him if he knew what it was and he said nope. But didn't feel the need to know at all. He says that I'm the one that should bring it up if I want to talk about it, which I find absolutely ridiculous, he does not feel the need to ask me questions.
I just feel lost at this moment, I'm not talking to him at the moment, thinking maybe he will then realize what I'm for him. He is not putting me on a pedestal but putting me down I feel every time again.
Anyway, any idea what to do this in this situation? I really feel lost. I don't know if age matters but he is 27. Thanks!