my ex is confusing me. I need some perspectives

[javrocker9]

My ex after I havent heard from him in two months, contacted me on facebook because I changed my number. He stopped talking to his girlfriend and they broke up and now wants to be friends. I told him I have a bf and I dont need friends but hes trying his best to stay around me. He always contacting me asking for favors or if I just want to chill. I hear from him more than I do my bf. When I confronted him he says he doesnt want to get back with me and when I ignored him and he got mad about and through some girl in my face that he was talking to like im suppose to be mad. I still ignored him. He called me asking if we cool. I said naw its whatever. He tells me he loves me and gets off the phone in a hurry. Then acts normal the next day. Im confused.

[nico88]

He's obviously looking for attention since his break up. If I was in your situation I would just ignore em because I don't have time for that bullshit..

[javrocker9]

I thought so too... Because he tried this before and I just shut that crap down I didnt want to deal with his crazy gf at the time. I just dont understand why me? He got tons of chicks in his phone. He can get attention from its stupid. He is not hurting for attn.

[nico88]

I agree..it is stupid. We can be that way alot of the time. We can have all the attention for girls everywhere but if we want the attention of one in particular nothing else matters. Maybe he's still has some sort of feelings left for you as well.who knows what's going on in his head. But if you're happy in your relationship now then I'd just brush him off you know?

[javrocker9]

I have no reason to leave my bf but im not satisfied with it. However im a safe person dabbling in ordeals with my ex is a chance I dont wanna take. Hes a ladies man. When he walks hoes follow

[Wakeup]

I thought so too... Because he tried this before and I just shut that crap down I didnt want to deal with his crazy gf at the time. I just dont understand why me? He got tons of chicks in his phone. He can get attention from its stupid. He is not hurting for attn.

Don't worry... if you let him "get with you" he will disappear once again more likely then not. My question is he sounds like a complete assclown so why wouldn't you make it so he can't contact you and let him call one of those many other chicks he has lined up while you get on with your own boyfriend?

[javrocker9]

Because I messed up person like that. I thought if I showed him im happy he would disappear again maybe longer than this time. But he keeps coming back!! He has been doing this for a year now. Ill tell him to move on he will talk to few people date around a bit and come right back. I use blacklist to block him but he can leave vmails. I have never let him "get with me" any of the times he has came back because I dont want to be responsible in the event he decides to catch feelings or even myself catch feelings. He has literally no reason to bother me.

[basilandthyme]

I agree with Wakeup....you need to block him

[javrocker9]

I did he can only leave voicemails.