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I think you have the right idea. I kind of want to tell you to lay things out on the table for him very simply. Let him know that you've always thought about him, and after spending time together...

Love is accepting the good and the bad, but infidelity is a deal breaker. He cannot and will not ever be faithful to you. You may have loved certain things about him, but in the end, he will always...

The only thing you CAN do is talk to her.. She's obviously not making the move to talk to you, maybe she is interested and just as shy, or maybe she's not at all. I think facebook might have been a...

She probably feels SCARED to tell you. Sex is a natural thing. How can you expect a woman to "save" herself for you when both of you had been sexually active with other partners before meeting? Sex...

Confront her, tell her that you've lost trust, and move on.

I know that if I catch my man on a day he's already handled himself, it takes FOREVER to get him to finish. As opposed to 10-15 mins if he didn't handle himself. I'm a 26 year old girl, and let me...

Understood.. I wouldn't want to make him jealous to a point that he questioned my faithfulness... And of course talking it out is my first option. I figured I would ask him to go to lunch Sunday and...

Haha this made me laugh. I know exactly what you are suggesting. I'm not looking to cheat or anything of the sort. I have wondered though what he might feel like if we were out at a bar and he saw...

I can see what you mean about the motherly role.. I just always thought that those things are what a good gf/wife would do... I honestly thought it was earning me bonus points... That he felt like he...

Yeah, in every line you are apologizing for something or trying TOO hard to make it clear your not trying to stir anything up. Has she specifically told you that she wants no contact from you? If...

Hi there.. 26f/29m So its been about 2 1/2 years for us, and I think basically my title says it all.. He's just become lazy in the relationship. He makes little effort, and its almost like he's...

Please guide me if I'm wrong... But typically men love an independent woman. They would rather see that a woman is capable of mnaging her own life rather then feeling like she needs him or she will...

BTW if she has made you finish orally, my bad that was probably no help at all =/

Okay... Im guessing she has never gotten you off orally then? Do you think she senses you are unhappy in bed? I'm thinking if she has never made you finish from oral, and then when she finally does,...

NO sympathy for you. You led this poor girl on to get your dick wet. Your an asshole, and I hope the woman you supposedly love breaks your shallow heart like you broke the other girl's. Seriously,...

Exactly. He USES you. Go find someone who WANTS to be with you hun. Just because those closest to him know that woman is no good for him, doesn't mean he will listen. He loves her for some stupid...

Yes. He is using you. When she kicks him to the curb, you are there to pick him back up. I'm sorry to be harsh, but you were, are, and will likely always be his rebound. Seriously, for the sake of...

I think you need to weigh both the pro's and con's. You say you love this man, you are just going through a phase where you are questioning that. Once you end it, its likely that that will be IT. I...

I couldn't live with that, and in your conversation you were right. She has gotten addicted to these fantasies, and its like she loves you more then herself which is unhealthy. You need to let her go...

At this point I wouldn't trust him anyway. If he broke up with you so that he can be free while he is abroad, I wouldn't trust that even if he didn't want to lose you, and asked that you stay...

(25y/o F and 28y/o M) Lets just say I have read all the magazines and articles... But nothing really takes it home. 2 year anniversary next month, we have a great relationship, sex is great. Not that...

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WOW. Some posts are just plain stupid, this one actually made me laugh. Sorry OP, not trying to be offensive, but everyone thus far has given you pretty good advice. Let me try to lay it out there...

Can I ask why you both are virgins? Why did he never have sex with his first serious relationship? And, what happened that crushed him so bad the first time you tried to have sex?

I think some people are overreacting. Send her the message. It will get it off of your chest, and I seriously doubt that after 12 years, your going to bring back this flood of depression for her. She...