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Go to some Co-Dependents Anonymous meetings. Things will start to make sense after you go to several meetings.

Sounds like you need to need to have a heart to heart talk with either her or her father or both about how this makes you feel uncomfortable.

Are you OK if he doesn't say I love you back to you?

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If you think this is normal, responsible behavior, you need as much help as they do.

Here's a good recipe for life that most successful people figure out early on- when someone who does things that confuse you and mess with your head, never associate with them again.

Try it....

A history of indecision and flakiness, added to a dose of lying to the tune of $20,000.00 is not simply a second-guessing of the pursuit of her graduate degree.

Both of these people are seriously...

Sounds more like he was looking for someone who would take care of him and make decisions for him.

Another reason not to get into a serious relationship until you have your own life in order.

The more important questions you should be asking your self is why have allowed yourself to be with someone like this and how you have allowed yourself to be put in such a powerless and submissive...

Any 29-year-old woman who says she wants to marry a 47-year-old guy is sketchy from the get-go.

Wait for what? To be her emotional tampon? Her gay boyfriend? Because those are the only things you are ever going to be for her.

That's great that your kids are doing well so far. Do them a favor. Dump the guys. Work on law school (that's going to take a huge chunk of time anyway). And most importantly seek therapy.
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Are you kidding? The story's not crazy only if you live your life by the standards of a Jerry Springer show.

Anyone who thinks the OP's story is normal is in serious need of therapy themselves.

That was an lesson of what happens when people only develop the skills to communicate electronically, but not face-to-face.

Your entire situation = http://i156.photobucket.com/albums/t9/Tallcool1_2007/TrainWreck1-1.gif

Forget being with guys. Concentrate on your kids and getting into some serious therapy.

LOL... you're not autistic. You are a self-absorbed, self-sabotaging, drama queen.

First of all, if you really were autistic, you wouldn't be able to pretend you were self-confident, assured, and...

Closure = the need to draw things out and create more drama.

Not wanting to seem like a crazy person doesn't make you any less of a crazy person.

You have a substance abuse problem. He is insecure and controlling.

Not a good mix.

1- Get rid of the PUA mentality. Most of it is smoke and mirrors with zero substance and leaves you either with nothing or a high-maintenance-pain-in-the-ass chick.

2- Quit texting, go out with...

Your friend is a trainwreck. I doubt you can help him.

Move on? Yes in the sense you need to keep this one done with. No, in the sense that you should move on to another relationship.

You need to not be in any relationship for several years until you...

She's one of those girls who needs drama in her life. If you want her, don't treat her well. This will create the drama and tension she needs.

Girls who aren't into you aren't going to suddenly be into you if you start playing a bunch of messed up games. Putting the moves on her is the only way to know if she is into you or not. If she...

He came to his senses and realized this was a disaster in the making.