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Only you can help yourself here.

He has you on a string, you need to cut that string, as much as it may hurt.

Bit creepy that you visit the restaurant alone just to try and talk to her, and then you're planning on going once a week.

You will no doubt creep her out soon enough.

You're 19, at that age people use other just for sex all the time.

not saying it's right, but it's just what happens. if you think you will feel bad about it afterwards, tell her that you're not...

As others have said, go cold turkey.

Delete his number so you don't get the urge to text him, keep your self busy so you don't sit thinking about him.

Eventually things will get easier, you...

No one knows why. She seems a little weird if you ask me. Move on or let her chase you.

As I first expected, the girls a bit crazy...

Adds you to facebook, then instantly "really likes you". You meet her twice, end up together and talking about living together.
Crazy.

Simple "Yeah, fine, you?" will suffice as a reply.

Bitches be crazy...

But to be serious here, we all warned you to take it a little bit more steady.

the thing it, the dumper always wants to stay friends, and they will keep initiating contact. Why? i have no idea.

The person who got dumped can't move on if you stay friends and keep contacting...

Depends how much contact, and how the person who was "dumped" feels, or how the breakup felt.

I personally think once it's over, then it's over. Why stay in contact? Why be friends? You was...

I don't think she drugged or raped him.

Drunk and can't really remember much? Maybe.

How does he know this kid is even his, if he can't remember anything? Had a DNA test been done?

If they're good friends, then she should be telling him before he hears from someone else - Surely?

Yeah man, focus on you. Stay NC, only reply if you really need to.

Last thing you want it her trying to talk to you just because she's feeling lonely. She's made her bed, let her lay in it.

You're not allowed to talk to other girls?

That's crazy for how early this relationship is!

She added you on facebook, what 2 weeks ago?

You've seen her a couple of times and you're already talking about been together, moving in etc?

Seems a bit fast.

Erm... I'd be a little worried about how quick this is going, lol.

I could understand if OP loved her, was trying everything to make it work etc. Basically blinded by love. But it sounds to me like both have given up, he's afraid of been alone and she's just happy...

Simple.

Just end the relationship, tell her she can still live with you as a house mate, but will have to pay rent.

She will soon leave. Don't do this to yourself dude. You could be missing out...

Welcome.

Sounds like he's quite shy, or he just enjoys talking to you and not keen on meeting you.

Or maybe he's an old man ;)

Just wait and see what happens.

First of all, if he's heartbroken you will only become a rebound - You don't want that.
Secondly, if you say something, and he ends up back with his gf it's going...

If he's in bed sick, and been asleep. He may see your missed call, but calling you back is probably the last thing on his mind - Going back to sleep will probably be the first.

Maybe he wokeup,...

Even if he hasn't got back with his ex, he's just not interested in anything right now - Still getting over the relationship.

I'm quite flirty, but that's as far as i get if I'm not ready yet.

Change that facebook password.

Delete him if you have him on yours. Delete his number.

Move on, you need to.

Exactly, start of a relationship you spend as much time together, you don't spend as much time with friends of the same gender, never mind the opposite gender.

For me, it would be a bit of a red...

I think you need to find someone else... Someone that is into the same things as you.

Because you clearly seem to have a problem with people not liking what you like.