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I think there are way too many women who try to "be pursued" and eventually realize they can be complete bitches and get away with it. I admit, it works. When a woman I pursue shows lack of...

LindaLinda,

That was rude as hell. It's really good that you followed up with offering to see him for this activity at another time, but cancelling on him was RUDE.

An effective way to...

I agree with an earlier message. Pay for the next 3 or 4 or 5 dates, see if he ever "insists" or if he lets you pay every time. That might not be enough, but, especially if he knows you make less...

Yes, I agree, blowing him off and hoping he gets the hint that he's being rude is a horrible idea.

If his lack of calling to confirm is a big issue, bring it up politely on the first date. ...

The guy is shy. Calling a girl to confirm a date for tomorrow or the next day is scary for a shy guy. The reason he's talking about his work is because he feels the need to say something, anything,...

I've asked a few of the women I've dated in the past, exactly what is "creepy"?

One girl I was with in the sandwich shop was complaining that while we were eating, this "creepy" guy kept staring...

I'm a guy too, but you have to be asking yourself the question: If this is how she treats her boyfriend, why do you want to be her boyfriend??? She's not loyal.

Obviously, those things must be a factor or you wouldn't be asking those questions.

Just generally speaking, the average woman with a boyfriend. Sure, some women are madly in love and some feel...

Please...I am not asking what YOU PERSONALLY would do in this situation. My question is, what do you think MOST women would do in this situation:

Ok, here's the scenario. A woman has a...

This is something that happens to me repeatedly. I meet a girl, usually in a restaurant bar or a bar (that's just where I normally meet women), get her number, plan a date, call her up and ask her...

For me personally, I have never dated online, I only date women I meet in real life.

I'm naturally a very shy person and I don't deal with rejection very well at all. So before I ask for a girls...

++++Women like to feel pursued, so they play hard to get.++++

Yes, but after dating as many women as I've dated, I absolutely HATE the last minute back-out cancellation.

I have a feeling these...

I swear, this thread, and the thought of all this, just makes me hate all women.

Use some logic on this. If you tell her you love her and she dumps the other guy for you, then she'd be yours. Would you be able to trust her? You'd be in Sean's shoes. She isn't loyal. If she...

++++She might not be playing hard to get; she might just not be that interested.++++

Maybe that's it, but why would these women still go out on dates with me and even sleep with me?

I've found...

Lulu,

I totally get where you are coming from, I made a promise to myself during the first year oF my divorce that I would never ever again, under any circumstances, ever compliment a woman on her...

Women like to feel pursued, so they play hard to get. Let's see...the guy has to have the stones to ask for the number. The guy has to initiate the first contact. The guy has to plan the date. ...

Thanks. Have you ever heard of women second guessing themselves, like, I played hard to get, pretended to be uninterested with this guy and he stopped pursuing me. I wish he'd call again, but I...

I've read that book, I think it was called "The Rules" or something. Basically, the instructions were to tell the guy you have plans when he asks you out. Then, the other day, I was listening to...

No, he is NOT a mentally challenged douche bag. He's attracted to beautiful women and see's them as not out of his league? Would you prefer he go date some less attractive female, just so he can...

Thanks for the feedback, ladies. Very helpful.

No, no, that's why I say NOT thru a dot com dating site. You meet the guy in real life, out and about, you talk for a while, he asks for your number. You've spent a few minutes or an hour or two...

If you meet a guy in real life, as opposed to some dating dot com site, when he asks you out on the first date, do you ask yourself "would he commit?" before going out with him?

Is he a player? ...

Hello? McMerry? Anybody home?

I didn't treat that girl poorly, Merry.

If I had treated her so poorly, would she still be talking to me?

Get off your high horse, Merry. Aren't you the one...

A lot of people calling me names and kicking me in this thread. Very mature.

Seriously, I get the feeling that the women think I'm an ass for sleeping with a girl I have no intention of having a...