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I asked your age because if your younger, capital L - Love is something many guys shy from. Being that your'e older, his previous relationships come into play. He has been single for 5 years, which...

It sounds like your girlfriend is more mature and developed, and is looking for you to fulfill a job you can't fill right now.

If you want to get back with her, don't see your coworker.
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How old are you, and what happened in his previous relationships?

I'm sorry, I find it odd that you come on this forum because YOU are worried about YOURSELF. Initially you didn't express a single concern for your kids or your current husband. Your selfishness...

Particularly in this case, where you have given a great deal of emotion, time, and care into him, it would seem that you were the only one entirely invested. If he wasn't reciprocal, and returning...

Be there for him now.

Give him space if he asks for it.

Take off work, whether you go to the funeral or not. If he asks you to come, go, but if not, be there for him when he gets back from it....

Adorablec,

Continuing a relationship after someone cheats is POSSIBLE. However, it is extremely difficult, and the majority of the burdon will rest on you. Assuming you are younger, I would...

You don't care one way or another, yet you continue to award me with responses... This does not make sense.

At this point your just talking to argue. To prove this:

1) Since I am apparently...

Sounds to me like she is stringing you a long. My initial reaction would be get out of this situation, and for two reasons. One, she seems flaky, and inconsistent, which means she is flirting with...

If you re-read our conversation, it is clear I took your advice, but because I did not agree with you entirely, your throwing a temper-tantrum. It makes sense that you and your wife have a "near...

1) Calm down, slow down. TAKE YOURE TIME. There is no rush.

2.) In two weeks to a month, subtly flirt with her and see if she is responds.

3.) If she takes to flirting, get more serious with...

Haha, so it is clear you are butt-hurt from an online conversation. Here are some emotional intelligence options you could chose from:

1) "I have to assert my dominance over people online,...

I admit, I only ran the title of this thread, but:


RUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNN.

MerryH is right, and attacked this point more harshly than I did (which was needed, let's be honest). You are being selfish, which is OK because you are young and you have yet to fully develop your...

Surfer, excellent point. I agree, deal with this on my side. Asking her will just open the possibility of new worries and fears. Appreciate it.

OR you just do not like that I am not falling 100% in line with what you are saying... "Once you identify the specific emotions, you'll have a much clearer idea of WHY you feel the way you do and...

Smackie, would you recommend holding off with sleeping with her? I feel that I need to develop a higher level of comfort with her, knowing for certain she is interested in staying with me. Perhaps...

If it BREAKS you as a person, your relationship is unhealthy. You should not be that dependent on your significant other, not this early in your life. Can you love her? Yes. Can that have deep...

I'm sorry... what is with the attitude? I just "did the work," I have "figured it out," and I've made it clear in my posts before. If you can't understand what I am saying, that is on you.



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I think, unless you disagree, that I have made it clear. Using your links: I feel significantly inferior (to the older guys she has dated) and fairly insecure (that I can compete with them), thus...

@HeartisAching,

I completely agree and wish more people would do this more often. Yes, my past effects me, as it does anyone else. But I have been VERY careful in letting it obstruct me. I...

I have been cheated on in my past, multiple times. 2 years ago I did get out of a serious relationship (she cheated), and yes, it was very painful but also a part of life. As I mentioned in the...

This is an awful situation for all three of you. (1) your current girlfriend is far too unstable to be dating, and this hurts you. (2) you are far too confused about what you want because you are...

I seriously want a means to a solution, rather than being told what ends are available. "Get help," "get over it," "dump her," aren't really solutions as they are just options. Admittedly, and as I...

@ smackie,

I did not mean experience in terms of general life experience, but more so directly with a situation like my own. I too could write a list of the things I've been through, of which 98%...