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The age difference isn't the issue, it's the fact that he is willingly in a relationship with someone else. Working together also creates complications. If you are both serious about each other then...

This girl is not the one - move forward and keep going!

I think this guy is suffering from a small case of rejection... perhaps he was expecting it to be like the movies and the 'no' rocked his self-esteem...

Am sure you can pick up again... perhaps...

perhaps could tell her it was nerves... next time don't 'do it yourself' before hand...

Be up-front with this guy and base your response on his reasoning...

Having an 'ex' in the picture doesn't have to be a big deal... as long as everyone is on the same page. My partner's ex hasn't been able to acknowledge me in the 3 years we've been together, and now...

Not sure what the context of your relationship is etc... however if sending or receiving a text is becoming so troublesome I would leave it alone.

Nothing happened yeah - besides words? Let it go.. you're probably not the first person who's made the suggestion to her...

If there are already issues to consider outside of living together (ie his relationship with his mum, your relationship with his mum...), how is adding 'living together' going to remedy this - or...

How did you go from being in love and spending all your time together, to losing contact? Talk to both of them - after all you are adults, and you are dating the girl not her brother!

People can change and perhaps he may feel differently about you. I am not sure I would wait around to find out though... perhaps give this one a miss!

Interesting... I think this girl sounds like a good catch. Don't mess her around and start dating her again if your 'mind' is wandering elsewhere. Do what you 'have to do' but after having your fun,...

If he isn't bothered to contact you then I am not sure why you would bother contacting him. (Not advocating to play games, but a relationship is not a one-sided affair). Let him 'see' you getting on...

Mmm sounds like this guy is indeed interested but perhaps waiting for the practicalities of life to subside...ie the responsibility of his elderly father, your daughter moving away etc. - (waiting...

Perhaps an evening date is proving too much pressure at this stage. Why not consider meeting up during the day sometime... maybe a relaxed lunch and don't worry about the goodbye kiss at this stage....

You already know the answer and yes that is time - but 'real' time. You need to consider why you broke up in the first place...

Sometimes the allure that is there is enhanced by the fact that you are both treading dangerous ground - in that you are already involved with other people. Either neither of you were happy before...

I think perhaps pestering him with texts and phone calls as well as making the situation public has caused some damage. Let this guy move on (as well as yourself) and retain any integrity you both...

Is it possible to change the flight to another destination? Long distance relationships can work, but not if one party is half-hearted...
If you are a 'good catch' then let someone else who is...

She sounds insecure, she may not 'want' you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you either...

Travel romances can be real and lasting, however it sounds like this guy got back to his reality in the UK and now has mixed emotions. He may really care for you but it is a huge commitment to have...

I think enjoy the friendship for now without the pressure of what 'may' or 'may not' happen. Perhaps she needs to take a look at where her 'serious intimacy issues' stem from.

I feel for you... but she sadly doesn't, or she doesn't have the emotional maturity to deal with 'things' as she should have. Take the focus of her for your happiness and concentrate on the...

Get yourself sorted first (ie counselor, space...) before making any other move. It's a much more 'attractive' position to be in... and in time you will both realise that - whether you are meant to...

Don't give this guy or your past with him ANYMORE energy. Embrace the excitement of a fresh start!