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Thank you for the reply and Merry Christmas.

We were on and off over the summer firstly because of his silly little affair which he regrets a lot - I have genuinely forgiven this and we have moved...

I've been with my boyfriend on and off for about a year now, he has children from a previous marriage and after planning to spend Christmas with me, my father and sister, he changed his mind...

Jesus woman. Have you ever heard of the phrase 'honeymoon period'?

Just chill out or become the neurotic woman who drives men away.

It happens in all relationships - my OH used to text me and...

Well don't send him a neurotic text then. If you must send any text, send something like:

"Hey, are you still cool with me coming to visit this weekend?"

Although I would advise you to leave it...

I have had these thoughts often but he is now making a go of us. I have decided to give it one last try as I do love him and I can genuinely see a future together.

It wasn't that the other girl...

One more massive push in your marriage, like Wakeup suggests. Forget about the new girl and your new young mates and try once more.

If it doesn't change anything then you must suggest a divorce....

Either
1. He is regretting asking you to come to see him because he was just being polite and didn't think you'd take him up on it.
2. He is genuinely not recieving your skype messages and is...

Afghanistan is usually the first one on the countries list - easy mistake to make.

I was a female in this situation but it turned out that my ex who did not want sex (for a year) had been abused...

Well I believe that I know what love is, although I do realise I need to work on my self-esteem.

It is just very difficult because I am that sort of person who is good at dwelling on things,...

This sounds like a situation I was in recently. I was the girlfriend. You will be seen as the b*tch who split them up and he sounds like a liar by nature. No matter how unhappy he may have been, he...

Get out while you can.

How did it go, OP?

I know emotional cheating is as bad. I am pretty darn sure they did not sleep together because I tried to catch her out about it during a heated conversation I had with her. I'm not sure where I...

I understand your points there.

Let her know that you admire her loyalty etc. but do not bother trying to sympathise with this guy who may have problems but is clearly a douche.

The best thing...

Return the ring. She will only get worse.
You may love her but her jealousy will ruin your life in the end.

Turning your back on your friend is different to turning your back on somebody who (sorry to put it this way, but) your girlfriend has technically cheated on you with.

Explain it in that way to...

I know how it feels not to be able to get someone out of your mind!

BUT (Very important but)

These are 'MEN' we are talking about - (most of them) think TOTALLY differently to us women and...

Firstly, please seek help if you are seriously contemplating ending your life over this.

I feel as if I can offer advice, as I have been in a slightly similar situation (fell madly in love with...

I'm going to ignore the off topic posts - OP, I think I'd be exactly the same if I was in your position BUT (and I have major trust issues in my relationship) checking up on/checking phones is a BAD...

Hello all,

I am new to this forum but desperately need some advice and thoughts. I can ask my friends til I'm blue in the face but they'll always have a tainted view.

I've been with a guy for...