I'm a Loner, And I'm feeling Lonely. Do a girl mind if you don't like people?

[Illusional]

I don't like people either.

At least, not today.

do you want a back massage?? well........ no because you're being a bitch today...

now the offers on the table, would anyone ELSE care for a back massage who isn't filled with disgust??

raverboy

[Tiay]

as long as you're not a loner as in a shut-in, but rather just introverted, there's plenty of girls out there for you.

[vashti]

do you want a back massage?? well........ no because you're being a bitch today...

Thank you for affirming why I don't like people.

[Stalin_Skaya]

I guess I am what you call an introvert. I have no issues talking with people and sitting and eating with a lot of people. I guess Im not what you call anti social more like preferring to be alone.

[Illusional]

Thank you for affirming why I don't like people.

haha and you wonder why you're in a bad mood. you make everything sound so negative. why can't you just be like me?? i'm always happy when i get my liquor.

raverboy

[splitsville]

Its not a bad thing to be introverted. Im sorta that way. Sometimes the company i enjoy most is with myself but you should get involved in an activity where you interact with other ppl, something you like doing. Your chances of meetin someone u click with will be much bettr

[Illusional]

yup, i also agree that it's harder for people to live alone rather than with company of some sort.

raverboy

[vashti]

you make everything sound so negative. why can't you just be like me??

No.

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[TDurden]

Sounds like a certain somebody is one neighborhood-dog-killing away from becoming a serial killer

[Illusional]

No.

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awww c'mon and smile.. it's a bright and sunny day. and i'm not hanging this morning.

raverboy

[CAM]

I noticed it too, girls seem to have life stages.

From 15-25 they want older popular guys that know a lot of people.
At 25-35 they want rich guys.
At 35-45 they want anyone single.

Nah, not true. The women who are 35-45 (in my experience) are very much like those women who used to wear long pony tails well into their 30's....women who refuse to accept that they've become adults. The 35-45 women are even more likely to be living in their little dream world looking for the "man of their dreams." 45+ year old never married women are as you say looking for anything with a dick and who is still alive...at that point, they are just interested in proving to the world (and themselves) that they are desirable and that they are not spinsters. Plus, they are afraid of their 30th high school reunions...where they'll be the only one without a mate.

Men are the same way.

[CAM]

In terms of sticking to the dorms, etc. and not pursuing....I chuckled about that. I was the same way. Women from my classes would generally come down to my dorm room, knock on the door and want to strike up conversation. One time, the dorm assistant (a woman) brought down a woman from the woman's wing to "borrow" my computer--it was the old days, not everyone had a computer and printer. So, this very shy and gorgeous biology student sat with me in my room (wearing her blue and white striped polo shirt and black leggings...it was the 1990's) until 2 am, and we typed the paper together. I was so freaking stupid...I didn't even make a move. I'd heard that she had a boyfriend at another school and so I didn't even make a move. Years later, I found out that she was a shy woman who had a crush on me and that the resident assistant was trying to push her and me together.

So, long story short...I totally identified with your story!

[Stirfry]

Try sites like nexopia or facebook.. maybe you'll find someone kind of like you in that way.
There's nothing really wrong with not liking people... I'm not a very social person either.. I have a couple really good friends and an awesome bf.. and he's a bit antisocial too.
good luck !

[Stalin_Skaya]

Lol I have no problem with getting a girl. I go out to bars occasionally, and a lot of girls pretty ones too approach me, or give me smiles non stop. I always turn them down and get a whore I don't need to talk to.

To make it short, I don't need face book et c.

[Stirfry]

maybe you're getting 'whores' because that's where they go to...