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Hi skydive88,

Interesting point. You're right-- sex is an easy thing to point to. There were other issues, certainly, in our relationship. Part of it was just a difficult long-distance situation.

[QUOTE=bulrush;770919]This is a big breakthrough and I'm happy you figured this part out. Just keep this in mind: if you don't ask for it, you won't get it. If you ask for it, you will probably get...

He does seem to be doing everything right, but I can't help how I feel. I wish i could change how I feel though. It would make everything simpler.

The onlly good thing you have going for her (basically) is that sex is good. Which is, I suppose , why you enjoy your time together? So, is the sex worth it for a long-term relationship? Not...

Concert. card games, museum, picnic, long walk, basketball/ soccer.... that's

Seriously? 29 views and no one will respond ? :(

Wow! You sound like you handled this situation in a very mature way. Best of luck to you.

This is a very confusing situation right now.

I had written a long time ago that I was confused about my romantic situation. I was with a boyfriend Juan from Colombia for 2 1/2 years in Colombia....

She sounds controlling and very clingy. She should understand your need to want to hang out with your friends once in a while. You made a mistake by not being honest with her, but it sometimes can...

If it makes you feel better, then send them. But, then, are you just going to be waiting for a response? It may just prolong an already pretty painful breakup. I, too, am just coming out of a...

Walkeup, Just saw this post. Hahah. Looking through my old posts because I'm finally doing the deleting. Thanks for your advice :)

Yes, the lack of affection could be due to all the factors that you discussed. OR it could be that she just doesn't want to be that affectionate with you -- plain and simple. I know for me, I don't...

I definitely know where you are coming from! The problem is, you got into a relationship with a new girl before you were over your ex. Which is completely understandable, but often makes things much...

I would talk to her about it before doing anything else!

I've posted many a time on here, but still feeling confused! :(

I lived abroad for three years in Colombia and fell in love with a great guy there. We were together for 2 1/2 years. I just...

Ever heard the old "men are from Mars and women are from Venus"? Well, we are built differently. Yes, we women (although men too sometimes!) are often ruled by our emotions!

I know exactly what you mean! Music is the worst! I did the same thing you did with one of my breakups. Rap or hiphop really got my mind off an ex several years back. Also, sometimes it can be good...

I love all of these suggestions:)! And I didn't even write the post lol

Thanks, Flyhyan:)

What do you think about defriending an ex on facebook...if you are the one who did the breaking up? I have been talking to an ex who is long-distance for a while now (we broke up about 4 mos ago) and...

Wow! good for you:)

Tormented, iIf you are "extremely worried, depressed, and nervous", it isn't a good sign :(. You are right to have some concerns. Nine years is a big difference, especially if the woman is older....

It looks like she has always just wanted to be friends with you. Sorry to tell you, but looks like she just isn't interested in you in the romantic sense. If anything good can come from her response,...

I really think you need to meet her in person and talk to her more. Although writing online is great, it is NO substitute to talking to someone one-on-one and face-to-face.

I'm 29 and there is no point in life or age, sweetie, where you just "find the one". Why do you think there are so many single/ divorced older adults?

What do you mean "he lacks the ability to...