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All true, did you not get some hints from dating him for 4 years? If not, still better to find out now than later. There is no longer a standard of what is normal for a guy, we are all very...

First of all, get rid of the selfproclamation that you llok like a child and that ther is nothing stunning about yourself. If a few people want to think that of you, so be it, but don't offer it as...

I am a Chef and when I was 23, I had already worked and lived in 4 different countries. I worked extremely hard on my carreer but not because I had very strong goals but because it was fun. I liked...

I don't believe in soul mates as in; there is a pre chosen 1 singular partner for each of us.
But I do believe in after having been with your partner for many years that you have a sense of...

Go absolutely "No Contact" with him. Get yourself busy with activities, get new hobbies, get new/more friends, make sure you spend a lot of time with your friends, go out often and have a good time,...

Completely agree with "Wakeup", you're in a terrible hurtfull place and we have empathy for you, we've all been there. What "Wakeup" wrote is so tha last thing you want to hear right now and it is...

Men brake up with women for the same reason women brake up with men.

The NC is to help YOU and HIM move-on. It is not to get someone back.

Remaining "just friend" can only work for both if...

He could be a little shy and hesitant and often that means that very little actions on your part frustrate him because it already takes so much for him to reach out to you. It could be that he has a...

It may very well be that she forgives you and that would be great for HER! But, forgiving you may mean that she will not get back together with you. You need to find a way to accept that. She cut...

When I am dumped by my girlfriend, the old cliche starts. She wants to be just friends (I don't have "just" friends, all my friends are special to me). No contact is very important for both to heal...

Hard for us on this forum to answer you. Your best answers are going to come from talking with him. After his break-up recently he wants female friends, it is harder to make contact with new ones...

My concern is not you, but her. The age difference is certainly not weird. Age can be merely a number, but it takes for a person to have an outlook on life that enables them to not only think of...

He is insecure, he is not quite certain about you, he is afraid to make a mistake again (he is not with the mother of his child) and people that have 3 year old children are busy timewise.

It sounds like the two of you are young, since she is in studies. Why don't you not have your mins ruined for 30 days, not worry about it so much. Put a smaller emotional investment into this...

What is the harm in just telling someone that you like them? Or being the first to say it? You can waste a lot of potential love relationships by holding that head up high in the power game to fall...

What is the name is this beauty who kicked your ass and heart at the same time?

When a guy praises you to his friends, things like, you are really good at your job, or you really know how to handle money, you always have great ideas for your days off, etc, etc, huge sign.

When I was your age and thought about asking a girl out for 2 weeks, because I was too shy. I found that after 2 weeks some other guy had not waited all that time and already taken her out. That is...

All above comments sound right to me. When you discussed trying again, she first said she wanted it as just friends! Full blown or NC is best advise to you. Good Luck.

You were happy and when you her and her hicky all the bad feelings came back. "Wakeup" is completely correct and now you will appreciate the NC concept. When women brake up with you, they want to...

Sounds a lot like my story of the past year. You have not been working on getting over the relationship, you have been working on hoping that the 2 of you will come back together again. There will...

Yes, you get the hugs

Learn this, people's hearts are of all different sizes and no two people love each other equally. If you are the one in a relationship who loves more, than when you break...

You are very heartbroken and that is understandable. You are grieving a loss and anger is part of the grieving process. Do not e-mail her, text her, seek her out at work, talk to her or call her. ...

You are following your emotions, good, but we have to use our head. You cannot make claims or feel so on a someone who is not remotely your girlfriend. She has been nice by telling you honestly...

Well,.. we don't have to hate you, but realize that people get hurt at a very deep emotional level by the actions of people that are like the actions of you and him as well. He has a girlfriend, so...