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    You are obviously amazingly close... but you are...

    You are obviously amazingly close... but you are also still very young. I think you should move on and do what you have to do in your life. She has been clear that although she loves you, its not...
  2. Thread: I cheated...

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    Look everyone knows what happened.. you knew it...

    Look everyone knows what happened.. you knew it was going to happen when you were snuggling on the sofa...(even that is crossing the line).. and you completed one last 'do I care check' before going...
  3. Thread: broken trust

    by Beenthere
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    Just because you had a fight on New Years doesnt...

    Just because you had a fight on New Years doesnt give your fiance the right to go on holidays with another man. Where did she sleep when on holidays together? Take a step back and imagine it was...
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    Look... men are simple creatures of habit.. its...

    Look... men are simple creatures of habit.. its easy to slip into sleeping with someone you are comfortable with and have slept with before.. If he slept with her before you, and then during your...
  5. Is that .com or .net.. I cant find it :)

    Is that .com or .net.. I cant find it :)
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    You're welcome. I hope it works out for you. ...

    You're welcome. I hope it works out for you. You both wanting the same thing is going to be important. At 23 you should/may want to be out there... doing the all night parties and getting in a 3am...
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    How do you follow that post.... I think the...

    How do you follow that post.... I think the person who asked the question stopped reading ages ago... :) Basically if you both want to wait.. wait. If you both want to have sex.. have sex. If one...
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    You havent said how old you are...which would...

    You havent said how old you are...which would make a big difference when thinking of the age gap AND how you know this man... is he a colleague, a boss or a neighbour?

    Personally I think you have...
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    Jeez... this has to be a joke!!! What if I told...

    Jeez... this has to be a joke!!! What if I told you this is the guy you should marry.. and maybe buy him an iphone with a head set so he can just dictate his messages while you are together.

    If...
  10. HI, I have read all these messages... I am not...

    HI, I have read all these messages... I am not sure you have... because the first page, everyone said dont believe her/ dont contact her and yet the texts are still flying. Look, the dates are right...
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    Hi, I think you already know what you have...

    Hi, I think you already know what you have to/want to do. It sounds like you may be scared of turning away your childs dad and of the feeling of being alone. Firstly, if he really wanted to change...
  12. I have to agree.. and to be honest even if she...

    I have to agree.. and to be honest even if she does respond and you get that happy ending, do you really think a person who goes crazy and cuts you out at the drop of a hat is as perfect as you...
  13. Id say he is flattered by the attention but...

    Id say he is flattered by the attention but despite what he says, he is not that sure what to do with it. Im not as sure as you that he cheats on his partner. You sound super confident and like you...
  14. Hey, everyone above is right.. theres no pressure...

    Hey, everyone above is right.. theres no pressure to be amazing the first time.. even you gf has said so much. But really, it sounds like alot of your problem is self belief and confidence. Your...
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    It really does sound like she is not over her ex....

    It really does sound like she is not over her ex. it sounds as if she likes you, enough to sleep with you, but not like her ex. I would suggest, that she may have wanted to see from sleeping with...
  16. Guys and girls, even in relationships will...

    Guys and girls, even in relationships will occassionally check someone out.. he is obviously into you in a bigger way. Like the others say, he could be just in for a fling from his current...
  17. Solidus, I really do have sympathy for you but...

    Solidus, I really do have sympathy for you but this girl is just not going to change. You cannot be with someone who you know is cheating on you left, right and centre. You said it yourself, you do...
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    Hi Peach15LFC, I think you have to plan to move...

    Hi Peach15LFC, I think you have to plan to move on for now at least. You sound like you know she didnt cheat.. I would think thats true too... but it does seem like she has met someone she is...
  19. Hi Bradchin, I assume you have been having...

    Hi Bradchin, I assume you have been having unprotected sex with your g/f too so........

    As hard as it is to take, when you meet someone new they are always going to have a past. Im not saying its...
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    Depends where you are in your life.. I think in...

    Depends where you are in your life.. I think in your 20s Career is more important, in your 30's you need both... But in the end Love is most important because I have never heard of anyone lying on...
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    Hi, sorry to be direct, but if you bought a...

    Hi, sorry to be direct, but if you bought a vibrator would you think "that's it, Im never sleeping with my partner again"... no, you'd probably mess around with it, try to see what works best and...
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    While you are waiting to get contact with the...

    While you are waiting to get contact with the chile, open an email account and email him as much or often as you want. Let him know your thoughts, how you feel and how much you care for him. Recap...
  23. You DUMPED her... you broke up with her... she...

    You DUMPED her... you broke up with her... she was in another relationship.. surely she is entitled to sleep with whoever she wants when she's single or in a relationship with them. If you want this...
  24. im depressed, all the people above make good...

    im depressed, all the people above make good sense, and if you were reading your message as an outsider, I am sure you would give the same advice. However, as much as we all want to help you, an...
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    fair play mate... couldnt blame you.. stay well...

    fair play mate... couldnt blame you.. stay well clear of her!!
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