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One thing to consider is whether sex has become painful for him. Not the most likely possibility, but not one to dismiss either.

Does he know how you feel? It may not be the most comfortable...

It seems to me she wants to be in an open relationship. Nothing wrong with her wanting it, but before she even thinks of acting on it you need to agree. You don't, so she's the one who needs to...

If you're trying NC till she comes around, you shouldn't respond to "like"s. Nor to generic comments. More personal comments, likely not either, though you'd have to make a judgment call. I would...

Never really notice. Unless it's REALLY perfumed, but even then don't really care.

-PP

He's just being friendly and flirty. I wouldn't read too much into it.

That giddy feeling where they were both holding your hands and you were trying to not break down - that's what it's all...

For what it's worth, I do not consider you to have cheated. Your husband could not fulfill some of your needs and seems to be okay with you finding it elsewhere. If you decide to stay with your...

"...Is this just a nice way of saying no?..."

Probably not. A much more common 'no' would have been "I just don't see you that way" "I see you more as a friend" etc.

I think you just moved a...

Oh, just talk to her for crying out loud!

If she declines you won't be any more miserable than you are now, suffering all that premature rejection and such.

If she reciprocates, then kudos to...

It may be better for you to ask for his number.

If you give your then you're sitting there waiting. If he calls soon, then great. But if he's not interested vs if he's super-busy vs he's...

A "Joey" wouldn't call her. ;)

-PP

"...I've been told if you stop using FB during this time it shows you're hurt and are withdrawing and maybe don't want to see what your ex is up to or hurt them with your new updates. However, I...

I wouldn't read too much into the conversations cut short.

Being robbed is extreme, but everyone has days they just don't feel like talking. If he doesn't get that he'll have a difficult time...

Depends on what you think is cheating. There is no wrong answer here.

Does entry-level flirting with the person next to you in line at the grocer count? Some say 'yes', many say 'no'.

Dinner...

"...doesnt pre cum mean hes excited?..."
Pre-cum means he WAS excited. A guy doesn't need to orgasm to lose an erection.

-PP

Void,

It depends on the girl and, also, the culture.

The non-threatening way to test it is to wait for a moment when you two are by yourself. Need not be alone - can work sitting in a park or...

"...She suggested that it would be best for me if I stopped beating myself up and trying so hard and to just make friends with a ton of girls and try to have fun, be nice but not super super nice...

"...How can I change her mind or whatever?..."
It won't change.

"...How should I act around her now?..."
Polite. Just like your other classmates.

"...How can I make her like me?..."
You...

Been there, done that. Means nothing.

Doesn't mean it meant nothing at the time, but you'll both be different people by then (and likely are now).

So, what did it mean then? Likely: "He would...

"...My question I guess is this feeling of anxiousness normal?..."

Welcome to the club! Our secret handshake is to bury our heads in our hands.

It's a common feeling - the difference is in how...

Do you talk too much? I don't mean that disrespectfully, but in all seriousness - do you dominate a conversation?

I am close to a woman who can, literally (I've timed it a couple times) talk for...

Whoa - almost as long, AND NOW YOU'RE YELLING!

I'll comment on the title and leave it at that.

Unless the new bf is abusive, move on. If the new bf is abusive, talk to her but don't expect her...

It's not the amount of love that's an issue - the more love felt, the better.

Rather, it's expectations and needs that cause problems.

Feeling deep love that is completely unrequited is fine,...

RHK,

I didn't get the impression he was leading he on. They've been dating for a little while, and now she wants a bit of commitment. He's not comfortable with that yet.

She does, however, need...

HoaBoy!

I'm glad you recognized your error. You're lucky, VERY lucky that she's giving you a second chance.

Really, there's not much more you can do immediately about your outburst. You've...

"...i should go take her from this other guy..."
What makes her girlfriend such an expert? Was the girlfriend a bit drunk at the time? This is never, never a good idea if you aren't dating. Even if...