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There could be lots of reasons he disappeared but he's back. Life is not all black and white, the key thing is that he's talking to you and he wouldn't be doing that unless he was interested. Just...

He wants you bad.

If she's about to go away I would just tell her how you feel. Easier said than done but you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. You both have lives that are in transition at the moment and...

Yes absolutely it is. I was in the same situation in a marriage. Being the one that initiates it all the time takes a lot of the joy out of it and after a while it made me feel dirty, like I was...

It sounds like she just needs some space and I think you should give it to her. She's having to cope with being pulled in all directions, work, daughter, home, you and lets face it, you're the only...

It sounds like you love him a lot more than he loves you I'm afraid - it's not uncommon, in fact to some degree it happens in every relationship. It sounds like he has you where he wants you; to...

Take it all to a friends house and let him know he can pick it up from there. You won't have to see him and it won't feel like a come on. Make it clear that if it's not picked up in 1-week it will...

This is way, way out of line - alarm bells should be ringing real loud!

Yes I'm scared. Have you seen the selection of women available for a middle-aged man in the UK?

The problem is we both have young children. Hers are at school there, mine here. They both need to stay where they are to be near the other parent so we discussed the fact that it could be like...

You've clearly not found the right balance between what you both want yet. The problem with living apart is that everything develops so slowly and even after 2-years you will still be working each...

The sex thing is a concern, for some men it's a deal breaker and sadly, the more important it is to him, the more pressured you will feel and the less likely you are to want to engage sexually. You...

Separated by 55-miles the 2-years of our relationship have been up and down more times than a rollercoaster - and with much more physical stress. Every time the pattern is the same; small argument,...

In a mans world there's nothing wrong with porn. In every genus of life on earth there has to be a positive sex, a gender that wants it all the time and is ready, and for human's it's us men. ...

Wake up - he's getting what he wants.

I agree with Archie, he's using the stuff as an excuse to keep in touch with you. Just dump it, if you aren't together it's nothing to do with him anymore.

Being cruel to be kind here - it is very weird to fall for someone you've never met. If you feel love, then it's cyber love and not real. You don't even know if he's telling you the truth - why...

On a couple of occasions it's helped me to look at whether or not a relationship is worthwhile. We all want love but there's few of us that would accept it at any price. Once the pain exceeds the...

Personally, I think it's not right that he keeps in touch with or talks about his ex like he does. I don't necessarily think it means he wants her, or is keeping her as a back-up in case you and him...

Sounds to me like he's unsure about you and him and he is buying love lottery tickets, the terrible thing is he's doing it in your face. He's probable invited you over because the other girl blew...

I had thought about the commitment thing and although I'm convinced she's not actively looking for someone else, she does seem to court the attention of other men. What you said fits into place...

But why? Surely you decide whether you want to be in something at the beginning not every time something goes wrong? Over 2-years this happened about 15-times, and each time the same. It's not...

In my opinion, it's always best not to have contact. Having said that, if you are both waiting for the other one to act you could be letting something go that could be sorted out. I was in the same...

I was in a relationship for 2-years and the pattern was always the same. Little argument, massive fall-out, she tells me she needs space to think about whether she wants to be with me, I can't wait...

Recently dumped and alone. Compelled to seek contact with the outside world online. Kind of feeling isolated and don't know where to start to build up my life again. OK with the heartache, not so...