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I completely agree with MerryH. So true!!

Hey,

You can fix this situation by just being chill. Be yourself. No matter what, your roommate's friend is still an acquaintance of yours. You don't have to act as if anything happened. Don't be...

You can ask her for her number online, and then transfer all of your correspondences from email to texts. Sadly, that is what society considers as more personal interaction. It's true. It certainly...

Here are my comments/observations:

1. She didn't end the friendship without "any special reason". It was because you were "in love with her" and she didn't feel the same way. She was most likely...

I think that there is a 40% chance that she's interested in going on a date/spending some one-on-one time with you. There's a 60% chance that she just wants to be your friend/intern acquaintance.
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I applaud you looking for advice with this problem! A lot of people aren't brave enough to do that.

You wrote, "I think mostly what I want to hear from him is that he thinks about our future...

I agree with the advice above.

Your only viable option is to give her some space. Follow the wishes of her family and her therapist. If you're truly willing to move heaven and earth for her, then...

This is totally normal, and happened to me. The commenter above me is completely right. This anxiety is stopping you from great relationships. It sounds like this isn't your gut warning you about the...

I used to have this problem, so I know what you are referring to. You are afraid to live in the present. You probably laugh at jokes that aren't funny? Or speak when there is an awkward silence? Are...

I am really happy you have done your research and are looking for some advice.

I feel like you have already made the choice to try to make this relationship work. So, give it a try! You said...

I think she should tell him how she feels. I don't think she has to end the relationship with him. She can't marry him if she doesn't feel that way. Hopefully, she doesn't have to lose him as a good...

Hmmmmmmm. It really could go either way. Maybe she wants you to ask her, but it kind of sounds like she blurted it out. When I was in high school, I used to blurt out stuff like that all the time...

I think long distance relationships DEFINITELY can work. Probably because my parents successfully had one for a few years, and they are still together! When these relationships don't work, I don't...

This is an awful situation that you're in. At least, I am happy that you recognize that it is NOT your fault at all. He came after you and you gave him your heart, now it seems that he doesn't want...

Welcome!

I am sorry you have had some bad experiences in past relationships. Hopefully, now you can move on and love yourself and expect the very best from life. Don't expect humiliation or...

Welcome, friend!


I really hope you find the healing you are looking for!

Gratedwasabi is so right. Listen to him. That's how it goes!

It sounds like you guys have done a little bit of talking and a whole lot of leaving. There is absolutely no concrete evidence that she likes you. If I were her, I would think that you didn't like me...

I think she needs more time as well. I also think she needs some distractions because she is already in a new relationship with you, her status really shouldn't be reflecting the past like that....

I completely agree with smackie9!

She just wants to be friends. I would only say that kind of stuff to a guy if I valued having him around, but did not want to be with him romantically. I guess it...

I totally agree with all the advice you got here. If I was this girl, letter or no letter, I would think you were trying to make me like you with gifts. Listen to VincenzoG91. Next time, ask her out....

Haha. This is happened to me so many times! And it always confused me, too.

What I usually do is assume that he does not have feelings for me. If you start to believe he does without any concrete...

Effective communication is the only way this will get better. If he does thing again, make sure you make it ABSOLUTELY CLEAR that it is not okay and that you are not ready. You can say this in a...

Awwww, I want to applaud you for seeing that you were wrong and wanting to apologize. That takes a WHOLE LOT of self-awareness to see that you may have said something wrong, and want to correct your...

The second guy! Unless I was a girl who was afraid to be happy. They are out there. They are afraid of the unknown--which would be the knew guy. So, they stick with what they know in a form of...